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The Autism Little Learners PodcastAuthor: Tara Phillips
You want to help your autistic students or child thrive but it can feel overwhelming trying to figure out where to start. Whether you're wondering how to build connection, teach communication, navigate sensory needs, or support your paras you're in the right place. Welcome to The Autism Little Learners Podcast, where compassion meets practical strategy. Host Tara Phillips, a speech-language pathologist with over two decades of experience, brings you neurodiversity-affirming insights, step-by-step tips, and real-world examples that help you feel confident, prepared, and inspired to support young autistic children. This show is relaxed, upbeat, and packed with actionable ideas you can use right away whether you're a special educator, SLP, general education teacher, paraprofessional, parent, grandparent, or anyone who loves a young autistic child. Each episode explores topics like: Teaching communication and AAC in natural, joyful ways Using visual supports and routines to create predictability Fostering co-regulation and independence Understanding sensory needs and reducing stress Supporting paraprofessionals with clarity and compassion Building strong, trusting relationships with autistic kids Tara's approach is rooted in connection over compliance helping you see each child's strengths, honor their communication style, and create an inclusive environment where everyone can succeed. Subscribe to The Autism Little Learners Podcast and join the movement toward more compassionate, affirming early childhood education. Connect with Tara: Facebook: facebook.com/autismlittlelearners Instagram: instagram.com/autismlittlelearners Website: autismlittlelearners.com Language: en Genres: Education, Kids & Family, Parenting Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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#169: Expanding Play Without Taking It Over
Episode 169
Tuesday, 7 April, 2026
In this episode, we continue the play series with one of the most common questions educators and caregivers ask: How do I help expand play without taking over? It can be tempting to jump in quickly when a child is lining up cars, spinning wheels, dumping toys, or repeating the same action over and over. But meaningful play growth does not come from control. It comes from connection. This episode explores how to gently widen play skills while still honoring autistic play as meaningful, sensory-rich, and deeply connected to regulation. Instead of redirecting repetitive or exploratory play too quickly, Tara walks through how to observe first, join gently, and add one small playful variation that keeps the child in the driver's seat. This conversation is especially helpful for educators, therapists, and parents supporting autistic children who are moving from exploratory play into functional and early pretend play. In This Episode, You'll Learn • Why exploratory play is a real and important developmental stage • The difference between expanding play and taking over play • How to use Observe, Wait, Listen before stepping in • Why joining repetitive play builds connection and trust • How to add one small variation without disrupting regulation • Ways to move from dumping and dropping into functional cause-and-effect play • How to layer actions to support more flexible play • Why repetitive play often serves emotional safety and predictability • How pretend play grows naturally from functional play • Why exposure matters more than enforcement Key Takeaways • Exploratory play lays the foundation for communication, regulation, and cognition • Expansion works best when adults observe before stepping in • Joining first communicates safety and respect • One small playful variation is more effective than a full adult-led storyline • Cause-and-effect routines create a natural bridge into functional play • Pretend play develops more easily when earlier stages are honored • Regulation cues help us know when the stretch is too big • The goal is to widen possibilities, not control outcomes When we expand from the child's existing play pattern, we support flexibility without disrupting joy. Try This • Observe the child's current play pattern before adding anything • Join the play by imitating their action first • Add one small variation like a sound effect, pause, or simple cause-and-effect moment • Expand one action into a second step, like car down ramp → crash • Think in layers by expanding toys, actions, and then combinations • Watch regulation cues to decide whether to keep stretching or step back Sometimes one small shift is all it takes to open the door to deeper connection and more flexible play. Related Resources & Links Autism Little Learners Membership www.autismlittlelearners.com/pod Play and Learn Functional Play and Autism Sensory Play and Autism Play-Based Learning for Autistic Children Honoring Diverse Styles of Play Expanding play is not about changing how autistic children play. It is about honoring what already feels safe and joyful, then gently widening what feels possible one small step at a ti
