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Playing Your Strongest Hand
Episode 41
Wednesday, 23 July, 2025
In this foundational episode, we explore two essential chapters from Personality Poker that will help you better understand yourself—and how to play the game effectively. Before you try to build your “perfect hand,” it’s critical to understand the difference between the four major styles:✅ Preferred Style – What comes naturally to you and gives you energy⚙️ Adapted Style – Traits you’ve developed out of necessity, often for your job🌟 Desired Style – Who you wish you were, even if it’s not natural🚫 Opposite Style – Traits that don’t fit you at all (and never will)You’ll also learn why distinguishing between these can be surprisingly difficult—and why misidentifying your style can lead to burnout, missed opportunities, or poor team dynamics.We also dive into the concept of your Strong Suit on Steroids—how the traits you might see as flaws (e.g., being disorganized or overly sensitive) are often just overextended strengths. These are not weaknesses—they’re your superpowers in disguise.Then we walk through how to play Personality Poker in three formats:🃏 How to Play:1. Solitaire (Play Solo or with a Close Friend)Use a 3- or 5-pile sorting methodUncover which traits energize you, which ones drain you, and which ones you rarely get to use (but should!)2. Gifting (Play with a Small Team of 4–20 People)Choose cards for yourself and give cards to othersShare heartfelt stories to build trust, deepen connection, and feel seen3. Poker (Play with Larger Teams of 15+ People)Trade and refine your cards like in five-card drawDiscover your ideal role—and who you need on your team for balanceOptional: End with a gifting round to reinforce how others see your strengths 💬 Key Takeaways:Being good at something doesn’t mean it’s your strengthLearned/adapted behaviors can lead to burnout over timeUnused strengths are often hidden opportunitiesThe 2, 3, and 4 cards (your shadow side) may hold your biggest insightsThe goal: build a hand that reflects your true nature, not who you think you should be🎯 Bonus Insight:Personality Poker is based on the Q-sort method, a well-established psychological technique used since the 1950s. But unlike traditional assessments, this one is interactive, fast, fun, and deeply human.Want to play? Grab a deck, pick your format, and let the insights begin.Visit personalitypoker.com to learn more or get your cards. Learn more, play the game, and unlock your team’s full potential at PersonalityPoker.comBrought to you by Stephen Shapiro—helping people and organizations create high-performing collaboration, innovation, and teams since 2001.
