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Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and FamilyAuthor: Mike and Alicia Hernon : Catholic Marriage Parent and Family
Parenting is not a clean-cut, simple process for those who like to follow the rules. Family life is messy and unpredictable, but it is the greatest adventure you will ever have. We are Mike and Alicia Hernon, parents of 10 children with a growing number of grandchildren, and we would like to invite you into some of the conversations we have had with each other about marriage, parenting, and Catholic family life. Our hope is that our conversation sparks a dialogue between you and your spouse that leads to greater unity and intentional Christian parenting in your home. Listen in to our podcast and start the conversation as we seek to lead our families to heaven. Visit us at https:///www/MessyFamilyProject.org for resources, guides, links and show notes. Language: en-us Genres: Christianity, Kids & Family, Parenting, Religion & Spirituality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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MFP 373: Parenting is Your Mission
Monday, 16 March, 2026
Summary There is so much noise in the world of parenting today, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed by pressure, comparison, and fear. In this episode, Mike and Alicia remind parents that there is not just one way to raise a family well. God has given you the grace for your mission, and your job is not to control your children or guarantee outcomes. Your call is to build a strong marriage, create a healthy home, communicate your values, and allow God to use family life to make you holy. Parenting is not about perfection — it is about faithfulness. Key Takeaways There is not just one right way to be a good parent. God gives you the grace for the family and mission He has entrusted to you. Your marriage must remain the foundation of your family. A child-centered family creates unhealthy pressure and instability. Your children have free will, so parenting is about faithfulness, not control. Parenting is one of the primary ways God makes us holy through sacrifice and love. You are irreplaceable in the life of your child and responsible for forming the culture of your home. Couple Discussion Questions Where do we feel the most pressure or insecurity in our parenting right now? In what ways can we strengthen our marriage as the foundation of our family life? Are there any ways our home has become too child-centered? What values are we most trying to communicate to our children? How might God be using parenting to refine us and make us holy?









