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Break Free From Perfectionism — with Robyn Graham and Allie Marie Smith
Tuesday, 27 January, 2026

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the things… and it still doesn't feel like enough? In this warm, honest episode, Allie interviews author, speaker, and neuroscience coach Robyn Graham, who gets real about perfectionism—where it comes from, why it shows up so strongly for so many girls and women, and how it quietly messes with our mental health, relationships, and even our faith. If you've ever struggled with the pressure to "keep it together," look a certain way, or perform your way into being worthy… you're not alone. Together, they unpack the roots of perfectionism (hello, culture and social media), what's actually happening in your brain and nervous system when you're stuck in overdrive, and why calming your body is a huge part of healing your mind. You'll also walk away with practical tools—like small mindset shifts and simple language changes—that can help you step out of the exhausting cycle of striving. This conversation is full of grace, truth, and deep exhale energy—a reminder that you don't have to earn rest, love, or wholeness. You're allowed to be human… and still be held. Subscribe to never miss and epiosde and share this with friends! If you love it, leave a review! Show Notes Connect with Us Free guide: "5 Keys to Walking In Your Worth." wonderfullymade.org Allie's Books Social Media Reset: A 30-Day Guided Journey to Unplug, Reconnect with God, and Reclaim Your JoyWonderfully Made: Discover the Identity, Love, and Worth You Were Created For Social Media @wonderfullymade_org @alliemariesmithTikTok Resources Life Coaching for Teen GirlsSocial Media Reset CourseWonderfully Made Young Women's Course Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism 02:11 Understanding Perfectionism and Its Impact 02:44 NEWCHAPTER 03:27 Robin's Personal Journey with Perfectionism 06:06 Cultural Influences on Perfectionism 10:50 The Control-Perfectionism-Anxiety Connection 13:05 Pursuing Excellence vs. Striving for Perfection 18:12 Practical Mindset and Language Shifts 24:29 Neuroscience of Perfectionism 28:44 Regulating the Nervous System 33:18 Final Encouragement and Hope