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Building Thinkers: Accessible Blueprints for Learning & LifeAuthor: Tracy Clark
Building Thinkers is based on the realization that there is exponential potential in the things we build, from mindsets and behaviors, to resumes and meal-plans, but sometimes insights and impact seem out of reach or overly complex. In the Building Thinkers podcast we will explore a wide range of topics (business, education, organization, habits, therapy, finances, research to name a few) unpacking the design, strategy, and details behind the things we build to create accessible blueprints for you to explore and apply to your own learning and life. There is no limit to what you can learn. Language: en Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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How to Raise Middle Schoolers Without Losing Your Mind
Episode 4
Friday, 13 February, 2026
Middle school doesn’t have to be a war zone, and your kid’s big feelings don’t have to derail your life. Megan Saxelby of Wild Feelings has seen it all. From navigating her own adolescence with learning differences to helping middle schoolers (and their parents) thrive instead of just survive. She shares real stories from her classroom and coaching work that show how small shifts in mindset and language can completely change your connection with your kid.We unpack why so many of us are trapped in the “middle school is impossible” story, how behavior is really a need trying to be met, and what it looks like when you give your child autonomy, belonging, and a sense of purpose. Megan offers practical, digestible steps for parents who want to parent from calm, connection, and clarity, not stress, guilt, or perfectionism. By the end, you’ll see how this phase can be one of the most joyful, relationship-building periods of your family life, and why approaching it strategically can leave everyone feeling capable, seen, and relieved.Key Takeaways:Belonging is crucial for adolescents' emotional well-being.Behavior is often a need trying to be met, not a personal attack.Repairing relationships after conflict is essential for healthy dynamics.Modeling silliness can encourage children to embrace playfulness.Creating a playful environment can help ease tensions at home.Recognizing the developmental needs of adolescents can improve parenting strategies.Resources Mentioned:10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People by David YeagerI Just Want My Kids to Be Happy by Aaron Cooper & Eric KeitelTimestamps:00:00 Introduction04:48 Deconstructing the negative narrative of middle schoolers08:25 How to shift your mindset and embrace the middle school experience13:12 Why your middle schooler acts like a total stranger20:28 When your kid pushes your buttons38:40 How to fix it when things go sideways40:29 Turn your home into a place your kid actually wants to be at48:24 The secret nobody tells you about middle school parenting48:54 How to work with Megan50:09 Parting wisdom for surviving and thrivingConnect with Megan:Substack: https://wildfeelings.substack.com/ Website: https://wildfeelings.co/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildfeelings.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-saxelby-20b1a689/ Email: megan@wildfeelings.co The WILD Compass Workshop: https://buy.stripe.com/bJefZiaYm3Fi9Sz0d4dnW08 More About Building Thinkers: I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build.And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved.If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.
