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Family Matters with Instructor MikeAuthor: Instructor Mike, MA, CBPI, CAMS-1
Family is the base of everything in your life. Just stop for a minute. Say the word, family. It feels warm doesnt it? Do you have family or do you have relatives? How is your relationship with your children? Parents? It is very important to do the work of family. Family matters more than you know. To that end, lets talk. Then, we are going to provide tools for you to use and invite special guests to discuss your issues. My issues. Our issues. As the African proverb says, A child not embraced by the village will burn it to feel its warmth. You matter. Your voice matters. Lets get to work! Language: en Genres: Kids & Family, Parenting Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Run When You Smell Gas: Why Some Conversations Aren’t Yours to Finish
Saturday, 27 December, 2025
Some conversations don’t explode because of you —they explode because of the vapor other people were carrying long before you arrived.In this groundbreaking episode, Instructor Mike breaks down the Knowledge–Flame / Vapor–Blame Pattern, a powerful way to understand why certain people become defensive, reactive, or combative the moment clarity enters the room. Using a simple but unforgettable metaphor — a torch entering a room filled with gasoline fumes — you’ll learn how to recognize when a conversation is safe to have… and when it’s time to get out for the protection of both people involved.You’ll discover:🔥 Why some people “blow up” when faced with truth, guidance, or education🔥 The hidden childhood conditioning that trains adults to defend instead of reflect🔥 APEIA — the five labels people use when they’re full of emotional vapor🔥 How to stop taking reactions personally and start taking them as information🔥 Why distance is sometimes the most compassionate response🔥 How to tell the difference between a candle ready to receive the flame… and a gas can waiting to igniteThis episode is about wisdom, boundaries, and emotional safety — for educators, parents, mentors, leaders, and anyone who has ever tried to help someone who wasn’t ready to receive it.If you’ve ever felt drained after trying to explain yourself…If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation wondering, “What did I do wrong?”…If you want to protect your peace without abandoning your purpose…This episode will change how you see people — and how you see yourself.Family Matters with Instructor MikeTeach the fix before the feel. Illuminate without burning yourself out.
