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The Neurodivergent Creative PodcastAuthor: Caitlin Fisher
The podcast for creatives of all types (and neurotypes) to celebrate passion and creativity, stop hiding your unique brilliance, and embrace what makes your mind and spirit come alive! Previously known as Run Like Hell Toward Happy, this show is hosted by Caitlin Fisher, a writing and creative coach who helps neurodivergent, chronically ill, and/or queer folks connect with their most passionate lives. Language: en Genres: Education, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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"It’s Just a Phase” and The Truth About Identity Exploration | #201
Episode 201
Friday, 20 February, 2026
In this episode of The Neurodivergent Creative, we keep rolling through Erik Erikson’s psychosocial stages of development! We’ve officially reached the stage where everything feels dramatic, your body is doing weird stuff without your permission, and adults suddenly want you to “be yourself” while also punishing you for it.Welcome to Stage 5: Identity vs. Role Confusion (roughly ages 12–18)💬" A lot of things in our life are phases and that's fine. It's morally neutral. I think the problem comes in when we start getting upset that a phase is just a phase and that it wasn't a lifelong thing. We gotta stop that. What the hell is that? Why are we trying to make everything last forever?" - Caitlin Liz FisherWe talk about adolescence as the developmental era of experimenting, trying things on, and figuring out who you are beneath performance, survival, and other people’s expectations. We also talk about how being forced into adult roles too early can fracture identity development and why it makes perfect sense if you still feel like you’re rebuilding “you” now.As you sit with this episode, you might ask and reflect about:What phases did I have that I was shamed for?What parts of me were real, but I had to hide?Did I get to experiment safely or did I have to become someone else to survive?Where do I still feel like I’m “trying on” versions of myself?What would it look like to let that be okay?What We Explore in This EpisodeErikson’s Identity vs. Role Confusion stage explained simplyWhy adolescence is supposed to be full of phases (and why that’s morally neutral)How caretaking roles and parentification can disrupt identity developmentWhy “being the good kid” can become a mask instead of a selfThe difference between who you are vs. what you do (and why the constant should be you)How identity gets shaped through experimentation: style, interests, community, valuesQueerness, gender exploration, and why language helps kids feel less alone
