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The Midlife Sex Coach for Women PodcastAuthor: Dr. Sonia Wright
The Midlife Sex Coach for Women Podcast helps women address their sexual concerns and create the sexual intimacy of their dreams. If you are not sure how to fit sex into your busy life or perhaps you feel your libido has died and you're not sure how to fix the problem, then this podcast is for you! Certified life coach and sexual counselor, Dr. Sonia Wright is here to help! Join her weekly as she addresses sexual issues from a caring, respectful, and humorous perspective. Sexual difficulties do happen, and they can be resolved! If you are ready to create the sex life of your dreams, visit https://soniawrightmd.com/! Language: en Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Self-Improvement, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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208: Exhaustion Kills Intimacy
Episode 208
Tuesday, 16 December, 2025
Do you ever reach the end of the day feeling emotionally drained—and then wonder why you have no desire for sex? In this episode, Dr. Sonia explores how the invisible emotional and mental labor women carry throughout the day follows them into the bedroom, quietly shutting down desire and intimacy. This isn't a libido problem—it's a capacity problem. You'll learn why desire cannot exist in a stressed nervous system, how "to-do list sex" and emotional overgiving lead to resentment and numbness, and why pushing through exhaustion only deepens disconnection. Dr. Sonia also shares how intimacy actually begins outside the bedroom, with rest, relief, and support—not pressure. ✨ In this episode, we discuss: 💎 Why emotional exhaustion kills desire 💎 The invisible load women carry—and how it affects intimacy 💎 How sex becomes performative when your tank is empty 💎 The nervous system truth about libido and stress 💎 How to talk to your partner about desire without blame 💎 What desire truly needs to return—naturally If sex has started to feel like one more thing on your to-do list, this episode offers reassurance, clarity, and a compassionate path forward. 👉 Learn more about Own Your Sexuality Now (OYSN) in the show notes.












