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Dad Starting OverWelcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast. Author: Dad Starting Over
Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place. I'm Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books called "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "Divorce Panic", "Real Talk" and "Red Flags". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the Brotherhood at https://helpformen.com Language: en Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Sexless Marriage: “I Love You… But I’m Not In Love With You”
Episode 372
Friday, 3 April, 2026
A 47-year-old husband wrote to me after 17 years of marriage.No big fights.No confirmed cheating.Just slow emotional drift.Then one day she said:“I love you… but I’m not in love with you.”Their marriage isn’t completely dead — but it’s nearly sexless. Rare intimacy. No initiation. No spark.I break down:• What that phrase usually really means• Why sexless marriages often slide into “roommate mode”• The role of new relationship energy• Why becoming “safer” makes things worse• What a man must do if there’s any real chance of rebuilding desireThis is not about blaming women.It’s about understanding the dynamic clearly.If you’re in a sexless marriage or feel like your wife is emotionally drifting away, watch this all the way through.Start with The Dead Bedroom Fix:https://deadbedroomfix.comIf you need grounded support from men who’ve been through this and won’t let you spiral, join the Brotherhood:https://helpformen.com/joinYou don’t want 20 years of polite indifference.You want to be chosen.
