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Surreal ThoughtzAuthor: Wildrose
Surreal Thoughtz is a space to question, reflect, and explore the unseen layers of life from psychology, spirituality, and philosophy to consciousness, self-worth, and the mysteries of existence. I share raw reflections on healing, growth, and the meaning of life, while wandering into the surreal intersections of neuroscience, metaphysics, the mind, soul, and universe. This isnt about easy answers, but about daring to think deeper and see life through a different lens. Host: Wildrose Language: en Genres: Education, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Episode 8 | Healing from the avoidant - How self-love breaks the cycle
Episode 8
Wednesday, 29 October, 2025
In this episode of Surreal Thoughtz Podcast, I reflect on what it really means to love an avoidant — and how self-love is the only way to stop repeating the same emotional patterns.While cooking and talking from the heart, I dive into the psychology of avoidance, why it’s born from pain, and how we unconsciously become mirrors for each other’s wounds. I also share a story about two people whose connection felt fated but became a lesson — a reminder that when love lacks healing, it turns into confusion.This episode is for anyone who’s loved deeply but lost themselves in the process. It’s about learning to come home to yourself, to your inner child, and to the kind of love that doesn’t abandon you.💫 In this episode:• Why avoidants behave the way they do• How emotional pain becomes a cycle• What true self-love looks like beyond the aesthetics• A story that might sound all too familiar✨ “They can’t see you because they can’t see themselves. But you can — and it’s time to.”🎙️ Hosted by: Wildrose📍 Follow Surreal Thoughtz on TikTok, Instagram, and Substack for poetry, essays, and reflections.🔗 Share this episode with someone who needs a gentle reminder to love themselves again.Tiktok | Instagram | Substack













