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Family Brand: Take Back Your FamilyAuthor: Family Brand
We at Family Brand want to raise a war cry to families everywhere. Now is the time to TAKE BACK YOUR FAMILY. Develop a family culture where relationships last, and each member of the family is seen and valued for who they are. It is absolutely possible to raise a family today without fear of the future. Define who you are as a family, and what you stand for. Stop looking at the future with fear and uncertainty and start looking forward with a possibility of more. More love. More joy. More connection. More resolve. The world needs strong families now more than ever. Let us show you how. Language: en Genres: Kids & Family, Parenting Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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260. Confidence Isn't a Feeling, It's an Identity! Here's How to Build It For You and Your Kids
Friday, 17 April, 2026
Welcome back to the podcast! Today we're talking about something that we truly believe impacts every area of your life—your confidence. This conversation came from a recent event Chris spoke at, where the theme was connection, and it led to a powerful realization: before you can truly connect with others, you have to have confidence in yourself. For a long time, Chris struggled with confidence in a way that might surprise people who see him today. There was a season where he didn't like himself, constantly compared himself to others, lived in regret and fear, and didn't keep commitments—even to himself. And looking back now, it's obvious why confidence was lacking. It wasn't random. It was the result of patterns, behaviors, and internal narratives that were being repeated daily. One of the biggest shifts came from a simple but uncomfortable decision: taking 100% responsibility for everything in his life. That moment was both humbling and empowering. Because while it meant owning the things that weren't working, it also meant reclaiming the ability to change them. From there, it wasn't about "feeling confident"—it was about becoming someone who could be trusted. Keeping small commitments. Changing the way he spoke to himself. Focusing on serving others instead of being consumed by his own problems. Over time, those behaviors started to build something deeper—an identity. That's really the key idea we want to share with you: confidence isn't a feeling—it's an identity. It's not something you either have or don't have. It's something you practice. And more than anything, it's something you earn. Every time you make a commitment and keep it, you reinforce the belief that you are someone who can be counted on. And that belief compounds over time in a really powerful way. The reason this matters so much is because confidence isn't just for you. It directly impacts your ability to show up, serve others, and make a difference. When you believe in yourself, you're more willing to take risks, speak up, and share your gifts. And as parents, one of the most important things we can remember is this: our kids will learn far more from what they see than what we say. If we want them to be confident, the most powerful thing we can do is model it—by how we show up, how we speak to ourselves, and how we choose to live. LINKS: All Links Family Brand! stan.store/familybrand familybrand.com/quiz familybrand.com/retreats. Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 – Intro + exciting things coming soon 01:30 – Melissa shares the mastermind event experience 03:00 – Confidence before connection: the core idea 04:30 – Chris's personal struggle with confidence 06:00 – Why confidence is not a feeling 07:30 – The exercise: who do you have confidence in? 09:00 – Traits of people we trust and believe in 10:30 – Chris's lowest point and what was happening internally 12:30 – Taking 100% responsibility 14:00 – Becoming reliable and keeping commitments 15:30 – Controlling the internal narrative 17:00 – Serving others vs. focusing on yourself 18:30 – Identity vs. behavior: how confidence is built 20:00 – The "confidence hack": keep commitments to yourself 22:00 – Why confidence is not selfish 24:00 – Confidence allows you to serve more people 26:00 – Signs you are becoming more confident 28:00 – Helping your kids build confidence 29:30 – Model confidence, don't just teach it 31:00 – Family values and identity shaping 32:30 – Final takeaway: be confident and share your gifts
