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How to Stay HumanAuthor: Blue Wire
In a world thats becoming increasingly artificial, disconnected, and disembodied, staying human is a radical, sacred act. How to Stay Human is a weekly invitation to return to whats real: your body, your breath, your heart, and your connection to the earth and each other. Hosted by award winning, transformational guide and spiritual teacher Tori Gordon and consciousness strategist and technologist Kyle Herron, this show explores the intersection of spiritual awakening, nervous system healing, divine remembrance, and the rise of artificial intelligence. Together, Tori and Kyle bring a unique blend of soul and structure, sacred and scientific, ancient wisdom and modern inquiry. This is a space for seekers, creatives, leaders, and lovers who feel the rupture, and are choosing not to numb or bypass, but to feel, integrate, and evolve. Each episode offers story-rich transmissions and illuminating conversations with mystics, futurists, healers, and thought leaders navigating the tension between rapid technological acceleration and the timeless wisdom of the soul. This isnt self-help. This is sacred resistance. This is How to Stay Human. Language: en Genres: Alternative Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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The Loneliness Epidemic: Why We Feel Alone in a Hyper-Connected World
Episode 230
Wednesday, 28 January, 2026
In the most connected generation in human history, why are so many people quietly falling apart in isolation?In this episode of How to Stay Human, Kyle and Tori unpack the loneliness epidemic—and why it’s not just a “sad feeling,” but a real threat to our physical health, mental wellbeing, and long-term resilience. If you’ve ever had a lot of people around you but still felt alone, this conversation is for you.Kyle shares a shocking insight from a health longevity conversation: loneliness is one of the most lethal forces impacting human health today. Together, they explore how our culture has traded depth for breadth, why adult friendships often dissolve into “surface-level proximity,” and how social media can create a false sense of closeness that leaves us even more disconnected.You’ll also learn a practical framework for rebuilding real connection: the Four Circles of Relationship—a way to map the people in your life so you know who is truly core, who is inner circle, who is outer circle, and who is simply an acquaintance. This episode invites you to stop taking friendship for granted and start treating your most important relationships with the same intention you give to your career, goals, and romantic partnerships.Because real friendship isn’t something you “luck into.” It’s something you build—through consistency, vulnerability, reciprocity, and care.In this episode, we cover:Why loneliness impacts physical health (stress, cortisol, heart disease, and more)The difference between being “connected” online and being known in real lifeWhy adult life makes friendship harder (survival mode, busyness, and the dopamine scroll)A story that reveals how much we’ve confused audience for friendshipWhy closeness isn’t history, proximity, blood, or nostalgia—it’s access + truthThe Four Circles of Relationship framework:AcquaintancesOuter CircleInner CircleCore (chosen family)The real test of friendship: who answers when life falls apartA powerful exercise to audit your relationships and name where dissonance existsWhy vulnerability is leadership—and why you can’t be loved if you can’t be seenHow deeper relationships become a form of resistance in a dividing worldReflection prompts (take 2 minutes):Who do I call when I’m not okay?Who thinks they’re close to me… but doesn’t actually have access to my real life?Which relationships am I maintaining out of habit, history, or image?Who is on the edge of my outer/inner circle—and do I want to deepen it?Sponsor: Anywhere ClinicThis episode is sponsored by Anywhere Clinic, a virtual mental health provider offering expert support from the comfort of your home. Whether you’re exploring ketamine therapy, need medication management, or want a supportive psychiatric guide, you can prioritize your mental health today.Book an appointment for as low as $120 or check whether your insurance covers it at www.anywhereclinic.com/tori-gordonWhat’s nextIn the next episode, we go deeper into the how: how to build real community, what it means to be a good friend, and what sustainable connection actually requires.If this episode hit home, share it with someone you love—and take one small step toward connection this week. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
