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The YouSchool PodcastAuthor: Scott Schimmel
Go to our YouTube channel to watch the episodes (just search The YouSchool) My nightmare at 20 years old was that I would wake up at 40 and feel deep regret that I lived the wrong life- a really nice, predictable, and boring story belonging to someone else. If you had told me back then that there was actually a roadmap, a step-by-step curriculum to walk through that would help me put all the pieces of my life together and set me on a path to build an authentic, meaningful life- I wouldve done anything to get it. It matters now more than ever. Right alongside planning for your future is living well now. Were at an urgent time in our world: mental health / unemployment and The Great Resignation... Building a Meaningful Life isnt something you just close your eyes and wish for. Its not something only a few people get lucky enough to experience. You cant just put your head down, do what youre supposed to and try hard, and expect it all to work out. Its something you can design. And everyone deserves the opportunity to build a meaningful life. The thing about life, though, is there are no black and white answers. What weve discovered over a decade of working with more than 20,000 students, hundreds of educators, over 1,500 military service members through their transition to the civilian world, and countless conversations with parents, elite athletes, therapists, neuroscientists, and researchers are: There are 30 Critical Questions everyone must answer for themselves so their identity is defined, their purpose is clear, and they have what they need to build healthy relationships. Those are the pillars, and answering those questions will give you the foundation you need so you can make wiser choices about your career, feel alive as you pursue a mission and contribute to a cause bigger than yourself, experience inner peace as your inner and outer lives become more congruent, navigate the complexity of friendships so you can find the belonging you long for, and feel gratef Language: en Genres: Education, Kids & Family, Parenting, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Helping Your Kid Know Who They Are & What They Stand For
Friday, 21 February, 2025
Episode Overview: In this episode, Scott Schimmel shares the story of Alex—a smart, capable college student who struggles with decision-making, self-identity, and finding direction in life. Alex’s journey reveals a critical gap: he’s never taken the time to define his fundamental beliefs or values. Without this foundation, he drifts through major life choices, relationships, and social pressures without a clear sense of who he is or what truly matters to him. Scott breaks down the difference between values (what you think is important) and beliefs (what you think is true) and explains why both are essential for a fulfilling life. He also shares practical ways parents and mentors can help kids reflect on and declare their own beliefs—so they can build a future with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Key Takeaways: Drifting vs. Intentional Living – Without clear beliefs and values, kids are more likely to follow the crowd rather than make intentional choices. The Power of Reflection – Kids need time and guidance to explore what they believe about themselves, the world, and their purpose. Parents as Guides – Your kids need to hear from you. Share your own core beliefs and values while giving them the space to shape their own. Real-World Impact – When kids define their beliefs, they make better choices about careers, relationships, and friendships—leading to a more meaningful life. Questions to Ask Your Kid: What do you believe is right, good, and true? What do you value most in life? What kind of person do you want to become? How do your beliefs influence your decisions? Next Steps: If this episode resonated with you, start a conversation with your kid today. Reflect on your own beliefs and share them—then ask your kid what they believe. It’s one of the best gifts you can give them. Subscribe for More: If you found this helpful, make sure to subscribe and turn on notifications for more episodes on helping kids grow into confident, purpose-driven adults. Follow Us On Instagram: @theyouschool
