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Open Your Eyes with McKay ChristensenAuthor: McKay Christensen
What you cant see, you cant be. Thats why we all need a clear vision of who we are and what we can become. On Open Your Eyes join author and business leader McKay Christensen to discover the steps to lasting change on your path to personal and business growth. From personal improvement to team leadership, get the insights and tools you need to open your eyes to a happier life. Language: en Genres: Business, Education, Management, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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S5E33 - Compelling Conversations
Episode 33
Monday, 12 January, 2026
Highlighting the fact that humans spend 30% of their waking hours in conversation, McKay Christensen explores the often overlooked reality that talking is a skill rather than a mere natural instinct. He argues that like running or computer coding, conversation can be practiced, improved, and mastered to produce deeper influence and success.McKay uses Alison Brooks’ "TALK" (Topics, Asking, Levity, Kindness) to show how conversation shapes our world. He also explores Brené Brown’s focus on connection, Dr. Wendy Levinson’s link between talk and malpractice claims, and John Gottman’s marriage "bids." From NASA’s planning to Terry Gross’ questions, join McKay here today to learn why kindness drives success better than aptitude, and discover the mechanics of social interaction.Main Themes:Communication is a disciplined skill that can be refined through intentional practice and feedback.High-quality conversation can be a matter of life, death, or legal liability in high-stakes environments.Preparing a few small topics beforehand reduces anxiety and allows for more authentic engagement.Long-term relationship success depends on recognizing and responding to small "bids" for connection.Curious follow-up questions are the strongest predictors of trust and likability.Lightness and self-deprecating humor foster a safe dialogue environment and team resilience.Authentic kindness is a more powerful predictor of professional success than technical aptitude.Top 10 Quotes:"Conversation is at the heart of human experience.""Like running, computer coding, or speaking a second language, it can be practiced, improved, and mastered.""They had a better practice because they had better conversation skills.""Preparation frees your mind to listen and engage more authentically in the conversation.""Preparation doesn't make the conversation mechanical. It allows the human connection to flourish.""Asking demonstrates curiosity and attention. It signals, 'I hear you; I want to understand.'""Conversation is a rhythm, not a Q&A session.""Positive kindness heavily correlates to predicting a salesperson's success, even more than aptitude."Show Links:Open Your Eyes with McKay Christensen
