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Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts PBSEAuthor: Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman
Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addictionwe get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addictwe KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast. Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Sexualized Media, Movies & Other Content—Can They Ever Be Safe Again in True Recovery?
Episode 339
Monday, 29 June, 2026
In this episode (339), we explore whether sexualized media, movies with nudity, provocative social media, and other triggering content can ever be considered “safe” again in true recovery from pornography addiction or compulsive sexual behavior. The question comes from a betrayed partner who wonders why sex addiction is sometimes treated differently from chemical addictions, where sobriety usually means avoiding the substance and the people, places, and cues connected to use. We acknowledge that sexual addiction is complicated because sexuality is part of human biology and relational intimacy, but we strongly caution against using that complexity to minimize the power of old addictive pathways.We explain that pornography and sexual addiction can activate the brain in ways that are very similar to substance addiction, and that visual cues, fantasy, nudity, social media, and sexualized content can quickly reactivate old neural patterns. Because of this, the recovery question cannot be, “Can I technically watch this and not relapse today?” The better question is, “Will engaging with this protect my recovery, my partner’s emotional safety, our relationship, and my integrity?” We emphasize that real recovery is not about driving as close to the cliff as possible without going over; it is about choosing to stay far from the edge because sobriety, trust, and connection are too valuable to risk.We also speak directly to the relational impact of this issue. Betrayed partners should not be forced into the role of policewoman, constantly monitoring content, apps, movies, and social media. What partners often long for is proactive leadership: an addict who says, “Your fears make sense given my history, and I want to put boundaries in place that protect me, you, and us.” True recovery is not about returning to the old “normal” or proving that certain content can be handled. It is about building a new life of transparency, humility, accountability, self-respect, and relational safety, where boundaries are not punishment but protection for the freedom, intimacy, and trust the couple is trying to rebuild.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: Sexualized Media, Movies & Other Content—Can They Ever Be Safe Again in True Recovery?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services
