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Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts PBSEAuthor: Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman
Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addictionwe get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addictwe KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast. Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Can I or We ever Heal from his Trickled Truths, Multiple D-Days and Ongoing Lies?!
Episode 324
Monday, 16 March, 2026
Many betrayed partners face the heartbreaking experience of trickle truth—when pieces of the truth about sexual betrayal emerge slowly over time instead of all at once. In this episode (324), we respond to a partner who experienced an initial discovery day involving pornography and prostitution, supported her husband’s recovery efforts, and went through formal disclosure, only to later discover evidence that he had lied during that process. The result was another devastating discovery day that left her questioning whether trust or healing could ever truly be possible. We explore how repeated dishonesty compounds trauma and why each new revelation can feel even more painful than the original betrayal.We also address several key dynamics present in situations like this, including the severe damage caused by ongoing lying, the role of hypervigilance and trauma triggers, and the importance of understanding why betrayed partners may react strongly to seemingly small behaviors, such as noticing their partner looking at other women. We further emphasize that physical aggression in a relationship is a serious safety issue that must be addressed immediately, because true intimacy and trust cannot exist in an environment where physical or emotional safety is compromised.Finally, we discuss what must happen if a couple hopes to rebuild after multiple discovery days. Healing is possible, but only when specific conditions are present: a complete and honest disclosure process, radical transparency, deep empathy from the addict, and consistent long-term recovery work. Trust is not rebuilt through promises or apologies but through reliable patterns of trustworthy behavior over time. When both partners are fully willing to engage in this process, even relationships that have experienced profound betrayal can move toward a future that is more honest, connected, and healthy than before.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: Can I or We ever Heal from his Trickled Truths, Multiple D-Days and Ongoing Lies?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services
