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Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts PBSEAuthor: Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman
Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addictionwe get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addictwe KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast. Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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From Shame and Survival to Honesty and Wholeness—Is Real Lasting Change Possible?
Episode 341
Monday, 13 July, 2026
A person who has struggled with addiction for many years may begin to believe that he is uniquely broken and incapable of lasting change. Repeated relapses, betrayal, damaged relationships, spiritual conflict, and overwhelming shame can make recovery feel possible for others but not for him. Yet the return of addiction does not necessarily prove hopelessness. It often reveals that recovery has focused too heavily on stopping behaviors without fully addressing the underlying trauma, attachment wounds, unmet needs, emotional pain, and protective parts that continue driving the addiction.Powerful spiritual experiences, emotional breakthroughs, and sincere desires to change can be meaningful, but they cannot replace daily recovery structure. Insight must be followed by action through proactive honesty, transparency, accountability, support groups, therapy when available, healthy self-care, emotional awareness, and consistent connection with trusted recovery people. Addiction thrives in secrecy, so lasting change requires revealing struggles before they become betrayals rather than confessing only after the damage has occurred. The addicted partner must also learn to respond to his betrayed partner’s triggers with empathy and responsibility instead of resentment, defensiveness, or a victim mentality.Relationship healing cannot be rushed or created through communication tools alone. It begins with each person doing meaningful work on his or her own side of the street, while recognizing that the person who caused the betrayal carries a particular responsibility to rebuild safety through consistent behavior. As both partners grow, they can begin identifying the protective cycles that keep them trapped in conflict and gradually create a relationship built on truth, choice, accountability, and genuine connection. Real change is possible, but it does not occur through inspiration or recovery by osmosis. It emerges through repeated acts of courage, honesty, responsibility, and compassion that gradually move a person—and potentially a marriage—from shame and survival toward wholeness and mature love.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: From Shame and Survival to Honesty and Wholeness—Is Real Lasting Change Possible?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services
