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She Speaks To Inspire: Public Speaking Growth For Introverted WomenAuthor: Julia Kraft
"She Speaks To Inspire" is an empowering public speaking podcast for professional women with public speaking fear. Unlike other podcasts on public speaking, She Speaks To Inspire not only gives you tips to be a confident communicator under pressure but also helps you regulate your nervous system for less anxiety, learn lifestyle practices to reduce burnout and overwhelm and reconnect with your feminine leadership presence for more authenticity and comfort in your skin. Learn more about Speak To Inspire Programs here: www.speaktoinspire.com And, follow us on Instagram! @shespeakstoinspire The world needs your voice! Language: en Genres: Education, How To, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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The Cringe of Watching Yourself and Hearing Your Own Voice
Episode 81
Tuesday, 10 March, 2026
Why does watching yourself on video feel unbearable? Why does hearing your own voice make you cringe? In this episode, we unpack the deeply human experience of self-consciousness when you see and hear yourself speak. That visceral "ugh" reaction isn't proof that you're bad at speaking—it's a nervous system response to perceived social threat. When your brain registers, "I am being evaluated," it shifts out of safety and into protection mode. In this conversation, we'll explore how to move from self-criticism to self-awareness, how to watch yourself without spiraling, and how to use video review as a powerful tool for growth instead of shame. If you've ever avoided posting a video, delayed watching a recording, or spiraled after hearing your own voice—this episode will help you build a steadier, kinder relationship with being seen and heard. 3 Takeaways: Cringe is a nervous system response, not a talent issue. Your brain is wired to scan for social rejection. Seeing yourself on screen can trigger the same threat response as public criticism. Self-awareness and self-attack are not the same thing. You can evaluate your speaking with curiosity instead of cruelty—and that shift changes everything. Repeated exposure builds safety. The more you watch and listen from a regulated state, the more your system learns: I am safe being seen and heard. For more inspiration—and to watch my free training, The Calm and Confident Communicator—head over to www.speaktoinspire.com. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe so you never miss an upcoming tip to elevate your speaking skills. And I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a rating and review—it really helps more people find the show! Thanks for listening! 💛
