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Couples Healing From Pornography AddictionAuthor: Sam Tielemans, LMFT
Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether youre just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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228: New Tools to Overcome Lust and Pornography Addiction Urges
Episode 231
Thursday, 25 December, 2025
Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: sam@healingcouples.org Episode Show Notes: Most men trying to quit porn are taught to fight lust, distract themselves, suppress urges, or “channel sexual energy” somewhere else. And for a while, those strategies might seem to work — until they don’t. In this episode, I break down why many traditional approaches to porn addiction recovery actually keep men stuck, and what it really takes to develop mastery over lust without repression, panic, or constant willpower. You’ll hear me unpack the three categories of urges — coping urges, habit-based urges, and biological urges — and why confusing them leads to relapse, frustration, and exhaustion in porn recovery. I also explain the critical difference between sexual arousal and lust, and why treating normal arousal like a moral failure fuels compulsive pornography use. From there, I introduce a practical, repeatable framework for handling biological porn urges in real time — without distraction, suppression, or fantasy. This approach helps men stay present in their bodies, interrupt escalation, and experience sexual desire without turning to pornography. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why fighting lust often makes porn addiction worse The difference between sexual arousal and lust (and why it matters for quitting porn) How to identify whether an urge is emotional, habitual, or biological Why distraction and suppression fail in porn addiction recovery A step-by-step method for staying grounded when porn urges hit How to build long-term freedom from pornography without white-knuckling This episode is for men who want more than short-term control — men who want to overcome porn addiction, stop cycling through urges and relapse, and build a calm, integrated relationship with their sexuality. If you’re searching for real help with: porn addiction recovery, how to quit porn, pornography addiction healing, how to stop porn urges, mastery over lust, freedom from pornography, this episode will give you clarity, language, and a framework you can actually use.
