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Couples Healing From Pornography AddictionAuthor: Sam Tielemans, LMFT
Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether youre just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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243: Why Urges for Pornography Keep Coming Back (Even After Weeks of Progress)
Episode 246
Thursday, 9 April, 2026
Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: sam@healingcouples.org Episode show notes: Most porn addiction recovery strategies fail for one simple reason: they focus on the wrong part of the cycle. They teach you how to manage urges. But they don’t teach you how to stop what’s creating them. In this episode, we break down the three levels that actually determine whether you can quit porn for good — and why missing even one of them keeps you stuck in relapse, no matter how hard you try. You’ll learn: • Why porn urges are the overflow — not the source of the problem • The three core drivers of porn addiction recovery: capacity, pressure release, and root cause • How pornography triggers build over time instead of appearing out of nowhere • Why traditional relapse prevention only works short-term • How to identify whether you have a capacity problem, a pressure problem, or a root cause problem • A practical framework used in high-level porn addiction counseling • How to overcome porn urges by working upstream instead of reacting in the moment • How emotional healing and communication change porn in marriage If you’ve been trying to quit porn and keep ending up back at square one, this will show you exactly why. Because it’s not just about stopping the behavior. It’s about understanding what keeps filling the system in the first place. Lasting porn addiction recovery happens when you increase your capacity, release pressure consistently, and resolve the root cause of pornography addiction — not when you get better at fighting urges. If you want real relapse prevention, this is the framework.













