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yup. I got you!Author: Tom Baldwin
YUP! What a title. I know, but it says so much without saying to much. KISS has been a guiding principle (Keep it simple sexy). Best life hacks around relationships and personal development skill. Quick and actionable tools for life. Exact amount of content to do the deed. That change yourself thing is here. This podcast is fun, relaxing, with solid wisdom. Presented a little redneck, a little 80's awesome style, and whole lot you gray-hair dude experience. Join the family. You are welcome and valued here. There is no one like you. Find the friend, advisor that has been missing in your life. Obviously I attempt a little humor. Yes, I have skills in relationships and personal development. For Pete's sake I have six kids (all teenage or older and I am still alive). Married to the same model for 30 years. My desire is to you see win, and be happy. Let's get this thing going. You CAN! Language: en-us Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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EGO-Let go
Episode 20
Sunday, 15 March, 2026
Send a textEgo is one of Tombo Baldwin’s most vulnerable and practical episodes yet. Recording from San Carlos, Mexico, Tombo opens up about a deeply personal experience—major dental work, losing his front teeth, and adapting to partial dentures—and uses it as a real-time example of what it looks like to lay down shame, quiet the super ego, and live authentically anyway.This episode explores the difference between a healthy ego and what Tombo calls the super ego—the wounded, overprotective, prideful version of ourselves that develops through pain, dysfunction, criticism, and survival. He explains that while we do need ego for identity, stability, and groundedness, the super ego is what keeps us defensive, controlling, afraid of embarrassment, and cut off from peace.Tombo shares how healing has helped him move from shame and self-protection into a place where he can talk openly about something that once would have deeply embarrassed him. Along the way, he ties together some of his biggest themes: peace as the pathway, gratitude as a catalyst, and healing as the doorway to your best reality now.The episode also goes deeper into Tombo’s spiritual framework. He describes how divine hardware within us—our God-given ability to receive truth, guidance, healing, and clarity—gets buried under woundedness, bad habits, programming, and fear. But as we forgive ourselves, love ourselves, ask honest questions, and identify places of dysfunction, that buried antenna begins to resonate again. Healing flows in. Old patterns lose power. Peace and gratitude rise naturally.At its core, Ego is about transformation:replacing shame with self-forgivenessreplacing self-protection with humilityreplacing false identity with true purposeand learning to say thank you to the parts of you that kept you alive… while also letting them retireTombo closes with a message of hope: you can heal, you can rewrite old pain, you can become who you were meant to be, and you can start doing it now. Even in awkward, imperfect, very human moments.Bottom line: when the super ego rests, healing begins—and when healing begins, peace, gratitude, purpose, and your best reality now start showing up in ways you never thought possible. Support the show What you agree with gains permission to operate in your life.
