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#114 - Kim Scott, Radical Respect and Radical Candor: How to Build Teams That Challenge Directly and Care Personally [ENCORE]
Monday, 23 March, 2026
What does it actually mean to care about someone at work?In this encore episode, Alisa Cohn sits down with Kim Scott, former Apple and Google executive and bestselling author of Radical Candor and Radical Respect, to explore the real cost of silence, bias, and avoidance inside teams.This episode is not theoretical. It is deeply practical. From how to solicit feedback effectively, to how to “disrupt bias without disrupting the meeting,” to how to move through shame and defensiveness, Kim offers a roadmap for leaders who want high standards without losing humanity.If you care about building strong teams, giving better feedback, or creating a culture where people can actually do their best work, this conversation will challenge you in the best way.You’ll learn:Why Radical Candor works and how leaders often misapply itThe hidden damage caused by ruinous empathyWhy silence at work is more costly than discomfortHow to solicit feedback without triggering defensivenessThe difference between bias, prejudice, and bullyingHow to “disrupt bias without disrupting the meeting”How leaders can build psychological safety through vulnerabilityWhy upstanders matter and how to be oneWe talk about:00:00 The painful story behind Radical Candor and why silence cost more than honesty03:00 The Radical Candor framework explained: care personally + challenge directly08:00 Ruinous empathy and the real consequences of avoiding feedback12:00 Why soliciting feedback is the first leadership move18:00 How to ask for feedback without getting fake reassurance24:00 From Radical Candor to Radical Respect: what prompted the new book28:00 The two definitions of respect and why they matter31:00 Bias, prejudice, and bullying, simple definitions leaders can use35:00 How to disrupt bias without disrupting the meeting44:00 Managing shame and defensiveness when your bias is flagged51:00 The cost of silence and the power of being an upstander57:00 Why discomfort is the price of real collaborationFollow Kim onInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/radicalcandorofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimm4/Medium: https://kimmalonescott.medium.com/ Website: https://kimmalonescott.com/ Connect with Alisa!Follow Alisa Cohn on Instagram: @alisacohnTwitter: @alisacohnFacebook: facebook.com/alisa.cohnLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alisacohn/Website: http://www.alisacohn.comDownload her 5 scripts for delicate conversations (and 1 to make your life better) Grab a copy of From Start-Up to Grown-Up by Alisa Cohn from Amazon













