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Failure Isn’t Final: The Redemption Story of Jason Comer
Episode 43
Monday, 20 October, 2025
In one of the most emotional and powerful episodes of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Jason Comer, a husband, father of five, and living testimony of how God’s grace can turn devastation into destiny. Jason’s life is a raw reflection of brokenness, rebellion, incarceration, relapse, forgiveness, and divine restoration. This episode traces his complete journey—from a troubled childhood and early substance use, to meth addiction, prison, family separation, and the miraculous road back to sobriety, faith, and fatherhood. Through tears, laughter, and hard truths, Jason opens up about what it means to be a man redeemed. He shares how Hope City Church, mentorship, and a community of believers gave him the spiritual and emotional tools he never had growing up. His story reveals the brutal reality of addiction—but more importantly, the beauty of God’s redemption story when we finally stop running. This is more than a story about getting sober. It’s a story about becoming whole, about how God can take the pieces of a shattered life and build something new—something strong enough to lead a family, raise kids with love, and inspire others to believe that no matter how dark the pit, there is always a way out. If you’re a parent fighting your own battles, a man seeking purpose, or someone walking through the ashes of addiction or shame—this episode will meet you right where you are. ⸻ 🧭 The Journey — A Timeline of Redemption 00:00 – Podcast Introduction and Technical Glitch 00:08 – Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation 01:06 – Jason’s Childhood and Family Background: growing up without consistent structure, navigating ADHD, and early identity struggles. 02:25 – Dealing with ADHD and Early School Experiences: learning challenges and emotional disconnection. 04:13 – Struggles with Authority and Early Rebellions: the seedbed of anger and defiance that would shape his teens. 12:25 – Teenage Years and Substance Use: alcohol, marijuana, and the first taste of escape. 14:25 – Yearning for Connection and Role Models: the father-shaped void that fueled destructive choices. 19:37 – High School Challenges and Moving in with Dad: searching for belonging and the impact of a broken home. 26:23 – Legal Troubles and Incarceration: addiction catches up—arrests, consequences, and a wake-up call. 29:57 – Finding Faith and Mentorship in Jail: discovering the Bible behind bars and realizing God still had a plan. 40:12 – Struggles with Alcohol and Meth: the relapse cycle and the deception of “just one drink.” 40:48 – The Gateway of Alcohol: the door that reopened old chains. 41:58 – Impact on Family and Self: the heartbreak his wife and kids endured as addiction took over. 44:12 – The Turning Point: the night everything fell apart—and God began to rebuild. 48:12 – Meeting My Future Wife: the divine appointment that would change everything. 55:39 – Adoption and Family Life: building a blended home, holding onto hope. 01:05:01 – Relapse and Consequences: the fall after progress and the battle to get back up. 01:19:03 – Repairing Relationships: forgiveness, humility, and doing the real work of restoration. 01:24:49 – Embracing Forgiveness and Love: rediscovering grace through his wife’s unwavering faith. 01:25:53 – Struggles and Poor Decisions: lessons learned in failure. 01:27:20 – A Life-Changing Accident: a moment that shifted everything. 01:30:53 – Rebuilding and Relapse: learning that healing isn’t linear. 01:35:22 – Finding Faith and Community: Hope City, mentorship, and rediscovering purpose through service. 01:43:05 – Family and Personal Growth: thriving in sobriety and watching his children flourish. 01:56:28 – Lessons in Sobriety and Fatherhood: hard-earned wisdom, legacy, and learning to fight from victory, not for it. ⸻ 🔥 Key Themes and Takeaways •Faith Over Failure: How surrendering to God’s will became the foundation for healing. •Fatherhood in Recovery: What it takes to rebuild trust, show up, and lead your family after addiction. •Power of Community: How Hope City Church and mentorship gave Jason and Brie the tools to thrive. •Marriage Restoration: A love story rebuilt on forgiveness, prayer, and obedience. •Generational Healing: Turning pain into purpose and breaking the cycle for the next generation. •Practical Sobriety Lessons: “Stay away from the fence,” “failure isn’t final,” and “change your association.” ⸻ 🙌 Why This Episode Matters Jason’s story embodies everything Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess stands for—honesty, redemption, and the power of showing up. This is a masterclass in grace under fire, a guide for any parent trying to rebuild from chaos, and a testament that God restores what the enemy tried to destroy. By the end, you’ll understand why Jason says, “We didn’t smell like smoke anymore—we smelled like victory.” ⸻ 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube to hear how one man turned pain into purpose, addiction into anointing, and fatherhood into a daily act of faith. ⸻ 🕊️ Keywords faith-based recovery, Christian podcast, addiction recovery, fatherhood, sobriety, redemption, healing families, overcoming meth addiction, recovery journey, domestic dad podcast, Nick Barnett, Hope City Church, Waterloo Iowa, inspirational podcast, testimony, family restoration, relapse and forgiveness, God’s grace, purpose after pain, parenting in recovery Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/domestic-dad-cleaning-up-the-mess-sobriety-parenting/id1732379029 Spotify podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/12eQNKuS1adoNiclmfn3wS Website: www.domesticdadproject.com YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DomesticDadProject Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DOMESTICDADPROJECT Insta: https://www.instagram.com/the_domestic_dad_project Jason on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jason.comer.182/
