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Family was meant to be a place of belonging, not behavior management. But too often, fear hijacks our relationshipsdriving us toward control, compliance, and exhaustion instead of trust, connection, and transformation. The LOVE IS FEARLESS podcast invites you into a new way of being with your familyone that breaks free from survival mode and rediscovers the lost art of being family. Join Janet and Doug Newberry, founders of John 15 Academy, as they explore what it means to create a home where love leads, trust replaces control, and transformation happens in the safety of secure relationships. Through honest conversations, real-life stories, and biblical wisdom, they'll help you navigate parenting, marriage, and community with a renewed sense of freedom, joy, and purpose. This isn't about doing more or getting it rightit's about learning to abide in love, because love is what truly changes us. New episodes released regularly. Subscribe now and step into a life where Love Is Fearless. Language: en Genres: Christianity, Kids & Family, Religion & Spirituality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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#171: D is for Dreams: When Survival Replaces Growth
Episode 171
Wednesday, 18 February, 2026
Introduction: "Pain has a way of interrupting purpose. And when pain lasts long enough, survival replaces growth." This devastating reality defines most of the systems we've built—medical, educational, even in the church. We've become really good at helping people survive, but we've stopped dreaming about helping them flourish. Today we're exploring the difference between empire dreams (optimizing within broken systems) and kingdom dreams (believing God has designed something better than we can imagine). You're in the right place if: You've settled into helping your kids just cope with life when deep down you wonder if there's supposed to be more than surviving You keep asking "what's wrong with my kid?" instead of "what's wrong with how my kid is experiencing childhood?" You've been told "this is as good as it gets" and you've started to believe it You're tired of building better coping mechanisms when what you really want is healing and wholeness Imagine a car manufacturer where 60% of vehicles break down. Instead of redesigning the car, they just get better at repairs. No factory would do this—but this is exactly what we're doing with our children. Sixty percent of kids struggle with mental health issues, yet we're building better coping mechanisms instead of asking what's breaking them. Three False Traditions: The Medical System - Dr. Ben Edwards discovered that much of our medical system is built on theories proven false, with exaggerated pharmaceutical claims and almost no advice about nutrition, peace, movement, and hydration. The false tradition: "Manage your symptoms with medication." The kingdom dream: "What if your body was designed to heal?" The Neuroscience System - Dr. Lee Warren (Episode #170) says the idea that you're stuck with the brain you have is just a theory—and it's not true. Neuroplasticity proves that when you take every thought captive, you literally build a different brain: new neural pathways, different hormones, new cells. The kingdom dream: "Transformation by renewing your mind is literal biology." The Education System - Janet shares her journey from traditional education (modifications and accommodations) to Charlotte Mason's philosophy at Ambleside School. Same children, radically different results—they flourished. The kingdom dream: "What if children are designed for transformation, not transaction?" Empire Dreams vs. Kingdom Dreams: Empire dreams optimize within broken systems—outcome-driven, asking "How do I acquire power in the current system?" They focus on treatment and management. Dreams have a ceiling. Kingdom dreams pursue transformation itself—trust-driven, asking "What if God has designed something better than I can imagine?" They focus on prevention, restoration, and flourishing. Dreams are supernatural. Key Takeaways: What am I dreaming about? Am I optimizing within the current system, or dreaming about transformation? Get honest about whether your dreams have a ceiling or are kingdom-sized. What false traditions have I accepted? Where have I settled for "this is as good as it gets"? Name one area where you've stopped asking questions and started just coping. What would I dream if I believed God could give me a bigger thought than I could have by myself? What if the pain isn't chronic? What if healing is possible? Ask God to give you His dream. Where do I see the 60% problem in my world? Where are systems producing broken results, but we keep building the same way? This week, ask God one kingdom question about something you've accepted as unchangeable. Listen, write down what He shows you, and share it with one trusted person. Remember: When pain disrupts purpose and survival replaces growth, we need dreams bigger than coping mechanisms. We need kingdom dreams. God is already dreaming them—we just need to ask Him what He sees. Resources Mentioned: Education by Design, Not Default by Janet Newberry: https://a.co/d/aGuYDfx Substack article "D is for Dreams, Not False Traditions": https://open.substack.com/pub/janetnewberry/p/d-is-for-dreams-not-false-traditions You're The Cure podcast with Dr. Ben Edwards: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-the-cure-w-dr-ben-edwards/id1266700954 Dr. Lee Warren: https://wleewarrenmd.com/ Join the Conversation: Register for our monthly AMA (Ask Me Anything) on the first Thursday night of each month by visiting john15academy.com/services Together, there is great hope.
