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LOVE IS FEARLESSAuthor: Janet Newberry
Family was meant to be a place of belonging, not behavior management. But too often, fear hijacks our relationshipsdriving us toward control, compliance, and exhaustion instead of trust, connection, and transformation. The LOVE IS FEARLESS podcast invites you into a new way of being with your familyone that breaks free from survival mode and rediscovers the lost art of being family. Join Janet and Doug Newberry, founders of John 15 Academy, as they explore what it means to create a home where love leads, trust replaces control, and transformation happens in the safety of secure relationships. Through honest conversations, real-life stories, and biblical wisdom, they'll help you navigate parenting, marriage, and community with a renewed sense of freedom, joy, and purpose. This isn't about doing more or getting it rightit's about learning to abide in love, because love is what truly changes us. New episodes released regularly. Subscribe now and step into a life where Love Is Fearless. Language: en Genres: Christianity, Kids & Family, Religion & Spirituality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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#172: E is for Energy, Not Powerlessness: Why Women Are Exhausted and What God Offers Instead
Episode 172
Wednesday, 4 March, 2026
If you've been told your exhaustion is a personal failure — that better boundaries or better self-care would fix it — this episode is for you. Because what if the problem isn't how you manage your energy? What if the problem is where it's going? Janet and Doug name a pattern that lives quietly inside countless women's lives: the hidden energy tax of narrative management. The relentless, often unconscious work of holding your own pain and protecting others from the weight of their impact — simultaneously, in the same breath, sometimes in the same sentence. Janet tells her own story in this episode — the well her mother fell into, the weight her father let his children carry, the marriages where the pattern felt completely natural because she'd been practicing it since childhood. And the marriage counseling room that confirmed what her nervous system already believed: your pain doesn't get to stand alone. It has to wait until you've managed everything else first. This is a conversation about the trap that looked like spiritual maturity, and the difference between genuine gifting and powerlessness wearing a spiritual disguise. This is a conversation about what God actually offers when you stop spending your energy protecting everyone else from the truth. Your energy belongs to you. To your healing. To your flourishing. That's not selfishness. That's obedience. In this episode: The hidden energy tax: the devastating math behind women's exhaustion Narrative management — what it is, where it comes from, and what it's costing you The trap of "be good enough to be safe" and why spiritual maturity can't get you there The difference between genuine compassion and powerlessness dressed as spiritual maturity What God promises when you stop controlling the story Four questions to sit with this week Four practical takeaways to begin redirecting your energy Scripture referenced: Psalm 46:1 — I am your refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 25:3 — No one who hopes in Me will ever be put to shame. Matthew 11:28–30 — Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened... Resources mentioned: A free AMA (Ask Me Anything) with Janet and Doug - the first Thursday of every month, 8-9 pm (CT) E is for Energy, Not Powerlessness - an article on Substack Before We Knew Our Wounds Were Real — a companion article on Substack Connect with Janet: Website | Substack | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn Together, there is great hope.
