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Dads Dating After DivorceAuthor: Jude Sandvall / Dallas Bluth
Dating after divorce isnt what it used to beespecially when youre a dad. The rules have changed, the world has changed, and now youve got kids in the mix. Join Dallas and Jude as they share real-world strategies and insights from their work with dads and men at BlackBoxDating.com and TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Language: en-us Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Self-Improvement, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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42 - Airplane Mode For Your Ex
Tuesday, 7 April, 2026
Your ex doesn’t have to ruin your new relationship, but if you don’t build structure, she can rent space in your head 24/7. We get real about what happens when dating after divorce moves from casual to committed: you’re seeing someone consistently, you’re thinking about introducing the kids, and suddenly the “gatekeeper” ex starts blowing up your phone. We share a simple tactical move that actually works in the moment, plus the deeper mindset that makes it sustainable.We walk through how we think about boundaries as dads: not a one-time rule, but an evolving system you keep upgrading as new problems appear. Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth break down why women feel safer and more attracted when a man is organized, steady, and humble enough to keep improving. Then we outline the relationship conversation many dads avoid: explaining the real dynamic with your ex, warning a girlfriend about likely drama, and setting expectations so she doesn’t get blindsided by texts, social media outreach, or conflict at kid transitions.We also draw a sharp line between healthy transparency and unhealthy dependency. Your girlfriend should have visibility into your life, but she cannot become your therapist, your mom, or your emotional battery. Finally, we talk kids, gatekeeping, parallel parenting, and a crucial reality of family court: narrative matters. Dating can be spun as a distraction from your children if you move too fast or handle money and parenting time poorly.
