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The Ex-Good Girl PodcastAuthor: Sara Bybee Fisk
Welcome to the Ex Good Girl Podcast! Im Sara Bybee Fisk, the Stop People Pleasing Coach. If you feel exhausted from constant people pleasing and perfectionism, and you are ready to stop but you dont know how, this podcast is for YOU! I will help you learn to stop making other people comfortable at your own expense. I can show you a roadmap you can use to train yourself to stop abandoning your own desires and let go of the fear of what others will think. If you are ready to stop pretending everything is fine, get out of the cycle of doubt, guilt, and resentment AND step into a life of power and freedom, I can help! Language: en Genres: Alternative Health, Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Episode 171 - The Small People-Pleasing Behaviors That Add Up
Wednesday, 22 July, 2026
Most women are familiar with what people-pleasing looks like. You say yes when you mean no, avoid conflict, or never ask for what you need. But some of the most exhausting people-pleasing doesn't happen in those big, obvious moments. It happens in tiny ways that have become so automatic we don’t notice them. In this episode, we're looking at these subtle habits through the lens of micro people-pleasing: the invisible, everyday behaviors driven by your nervous system that quietly steal your time, energy, and attention. Once you understand these small tendencies, you can begin interrupting them before they add up. Here's what I cover:The surprising math behind how much time we spend replaying conversations and trying to keep other people happyWhat micro people-pleasing looks like in everyday life and how it differs from more obvious people-pleasing behaviorsA self-assessment exercise to help you identify your own micro people-pleasing patternsWhy micro people-pleasing behaviors aren't conscious choices but responses designed to help you feel safeHow practicing "the pause" helps you interrupt both big and micro people-pleasing habitsReserve your seat for my next workshop: sarafisk.coach/voiceFind Sara here:sarafisk.coachpages.sarafisk.coach/difficultconversationsinstagram.com/sarafiskcoachfacebook.com/SaraFiskCoachingtiktok.com/@sarafiskcoachyoutube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333
