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Boys Need Consequences, Not Lectures - Therapist Explains
Tuesday, 18 November, 2025
Boys don't learn unless there's physical discipline and consequences - not long lectures or verbal reasoning. As a therapist, I break down why many boys process lessons more effectively through movement, structure, and embodied consequences. In this video, I explain how calm, action-based discipline supports emotional regulation, builds respect, and strengthens connection when paired with warmth and relationship. If you want to understand what actually works for developing confident and responsible young men, this will help clarify the science and the strategy. Original video of the dad and son Research Gurian, Michael. Boys and Girls Learn Differently! San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2001. Lamborn, S. D., Mounts, N. S., Steinberg, L., and Dornbusch, S. M. “Patterns of Competence and Adjustment Among Adolescents From Authoritative, Authoritarian, Indulgent, and Neglectful Families.” Child Development 62, no. 5 (1991): 1049–1065. Porges, Stephen W. The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W. W. Norton, 2011. Pleck, Joseph H. “Paternal Involvement: Levels, Sources, and Consequences.” In: Lamb, Michael E. (Ed.), The Role of the Father in Child Development, 5th ed., pp. 58–93. Hoboken: Wiley, 2010. Erikson, Erik H. Childhood and Society. New York: W. W. Norton, 1950. Baumrind, Diana. “Effects of Authoritative Parental Control on Child Behavior.” Child Development 37, no. 4 (1966): 887–907. Maccoby, Eleanor E., and Martin, John. “Socialization in the Context of the Family: Parent-Child Interaction.” In Handbook of Child Psychology, Vol. 4, Socialization, Personality, and Social Development. New York: Wiley, 1983. Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Hebrews 12:6 “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
