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ADOPTION STRUGGLES AND SUPPORT | Adoption Trauma, Safety, Peace of Mind, Biblical Encouragement, Respite, JournalingAuthor: Tim Maudlin, Adoptive Parent, Adoption Mentor
The Go-to Podcast for Struggling Adoptive Parents Who Need Biblical Encouragement In Their Parenting Journey! Did you finally realize your dream of having a family, only to have your happily ever after turn into a nightmare? Does your home feel unsafe at times? Are you constantly second-guessing your parenting and asking questions like: Will my adopted child be okay? What does their future hold? If these questions feel uncomfortably close to home, take a breath you are not alone, and there is a path forward. If youre a struggling adoptive parent searching for answers in your parenting journey, youre in the right place. Hi Neighbor,Welcome to Adoption Struggles and Support. Im Tim, an adoptive parent, adoption mentor, and ambassador of encouragement. I too felt the joy of having a family of my own, and I wished we could be like other families. Instead, I found myself up late at night, anxious about my familys safety and my adopted childs future. I kept asking myself: How can I make my home safe and peaceful again? Will my child be okay? Where did I go wrong? It was only by grabbing a lifeline from God and my friends that I was able to navigate the challenges of adoptive life. And now I cant wait to share everything Ive learned with you. My mission is to help Christian adoptive parents create safe and peaceful homes and learn to be okay even when their kids arent by anchoring their lives in biblical principles. If youre ready for real and raw talk with strategies that lead to peace beyond comprehension, so you not only survive but thrive in lifes storms, this podcast is for you. Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way.Your Neighbor,Tim Connect: tim@anchorsofencouragement.comCommunity: https://timsuggests.com/community Language: en-us Genres: Kids & Family, Parenting Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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247 – How Adoptive Parents Can Move From Surviving to Thriving with Erich Nelson
Sunday, 23 August, 2026
What happens when survival mode becomes a way of life? You’ve weathered the hard behaviors, fear, and uncertainty. But somewhere along the way, surviving became the goal. What if God wants more for you—and for your adopted child—than simply surviving? 🌱 Hi Neighbor, Today I’m joined by my neighbor and longtime friend, Erich Nelson. You may remember Erich from Episode 53. He also played an important role in helping my son Jonny during his time in residential treatment. This episode feels less like an interview and more like two friends talking honestly about something we’ve both experienced: getting stuck in survivor mode. Erich explains how early trauma can cause an adopted child to constantly scan for danger and protect themselves from emotional pain. It may even help explain the invisible wall parents sometimes feel despite all the love and support they’re giving. But we also discovered something: Adoptive parents can get stuck in survivor mode too. After years of chaos and uncertainty, you may find yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop—protecting yourself, playing it safe, and simply making it through another day. But are you surviving—or thriving? We talk about: • How trauma can keep adopted children stuck in survival mode. • Why fight, flight, freeze, and fawn are attempts to avoid danger and pain. • Why an adopted child may keep an emotional wall up even when they are safe and loved. ❤️ • How a survivor mindset can become a victim mentality. • Why adoptive parents can become stuck in survival mode too. • How prayer, journaling, intentionality, and a growth mindset can help us move from surviving to thriving. 🙏 My Daily Doable comes at the beginning of this episode: Listen. Really listen. Allow this conversation to take you wherever it does—even if that place makes you uncomfortable. Maybe you’ve spent so much time surviving your adoption journey that you haven’t stopped to ask what thriving could look like. Surviving the hard seasons matters. But surviving doesn’t have to be the destination. Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. I recorded a quick video to show you how. Thanks so much! If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.
