Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Author: Cam Fraser

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#280 Stop Having Fear-Based Sex (with Caitlin V)
Thursday, 12 February, 2026

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Caitlin V, a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, HBO Max host, and author of "Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger," outlines her decade of work primarily with men experiencing performance anxiety. She emphasizes shifting from performance and comparison to an experiential focus on pleasure, communication, and treating sexual challenges as data. We also discuss fear, homophobia, and manosphere grifts.Key Points:05:47 Beyond Premature Ejaculation13:25 Performance vs Pleasure19:24 Fear and Masculinity23:23 Manosphere Grifts37:44 Fear of Pleasure42:17 Performance vs Receiving48:54 Erotic Libraries and Porn