Adulting with Autism

Author: April Ratchford MS OT/L

Adulting with Autism isnt just a podcast its a movement.We give autistic and neurodivergent adults the platform, voice, and validation theyve always deserved. Here, we dont mask. We dont perform. We belong.Every episode brings honest conversations with leaders, advocates, and everyday people who are rewriting what it means to thrive as a neurodivergent adult. We talk life skills, independence, mental health, relationships, careers, and legacy because autistic voices dont just need a seat at the table we are the table.Ranked among Apples Top 200 Podcasts (All Categories), Adulting with Autism is proof that our voices are resonating worldwide.Join us Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays as we move beyond survival, build authentic lives, and create legacies that last.Because autism isnt broken. Its just a different frequency and the world is finally tuning in.  Listen on Buzzsprout, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube  Explore all links merch: https://linktr.ee/adultingwithautism Want to be a guest or collaborate? Message April on PodMatch: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1708097947800879cbdd654ca Autistic. Authentic. Unapologetic. With over 2 million downloads and listeners worldwide, Adulting with Autism proves our voices belong here.
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Autistic Trauma Patterns: Break Reenactments | Dr. Tony Iezzi
Episode 207
Friday, 21 November, 2025

Autistic pattern loops trapping you? Dr. Tony Iezzi (35+ years clinical psychologist, Reenactments co-author) shares: From Vietnam vets to ND challenges, his therapy framework—awareness (spot themes like rejection/abandonment), regulate physiology (walks/music to calm revved systems), and interrupt habits (new actions over rage/stewing)—breaks unconscious reenactments from childhood chaos. For autistic/ADHD young adults reacting to environments, parents modeling reflection, or allies fostering tools, this convo's your toolkit—journaling for insight, themes over events ("Treat sensitivities, not specifics").Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro: Tony's Trauma/Chronic Pain Expertise 0:11 - Patterns in Everyday Life & ND 1:11 - Awareness: Spot Unconscious Habits 2:55 - Childhood Roots & Physiology Revving 5:20 - Interrupting Loops: First Steps 8:00 - Themes (Abandonment/Rejection/Bullying) 11:19 - Reenactment Therapy for Sensitivities 14:23 - Parents Changing First to Help Kids 17:26 - Vietnam Vets: Pre-Existing Mess 20:53 - Society's Harshness on Differences 23:36 - Signs of Breaking Reenactments 26:19 - Journaling: Reflect to Refine 29:55 - Tailor to Physiology (Autism/ADD) 32:40 - Power Dynamic in Parenting 35:49 - Risks & Young Adult Transitions 38:58 - Mutual Respect: Consultant, Not Authority 42:14 - Village Support & Falling/Failing 45:38 - Where to Find Tony (Site/Book)Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if patterns clicked! Resources/book in notes. Squad, share w/ a loop-breaker (tag 'em below—let's rewire!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for habit days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticTraumaPatterns #NeurodivergentReenactments #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatchStuck in autistic trauma reenactments? Dr. Tony Iezzi unpacks 35+ years treating pain/trauma: Reenactments framework—awareness (unconscious habits from childhood), physiology regulation (walks/music for revved ND systems), theme targeting (abandonment/rejection/bullying over events)—breaks loops for better quality of life. ND applications: Physiology caps (autism/ADD at 100% = no problem-solving), environments amplify sensitivities (dysregulated homes = harder coping). For late-dx young adults reacting automatically, parents interrupting cycles (change adult first), or OTs modeling reflection/journaling, Tony's "themes repeat across situations—target them" flips reactivity to strategy. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for executive/sensory patterns, parenting power shifts, habit-building.Links:Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!)Tony's Site: tonyiezzi.com (book ordering/socials)Book: Reenactments (Amazon)Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for pattern resets)Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a rewire! #AutisticBehaviorLoops #NeurodivergentPhysiology #TraumaThemesAutism #PodcastHabits #MentalHealthAwareness #UnmaskedReenactments #ADHDRegulation #ReenactmentTherapy #ResiliencePatterns #EmpathySquad Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.