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Self-Represented in Family CourtAuthor: Tracey Bee, Pro Se Family Court Strategist
We discuss how to use strategy in Family Court to get the results you want. A family law professional with twenty years of experience in the field will share with you what really matters in Family Court. Whether you are going through divorce or custody, if you are representing yourself you need to know the tactics that will end the torment you have been enduring up until this point. We will share tips, tricks, techniques, and everything else that your lawyer will never divulge. If you have been getting disappointment from lawyers, the judge, or the overall process, tune in to get help on plotting your next move. Visit www.thedivorcesolutionist.com to download the FREE "Are You Pro Se Material" e-guide & workbook. Listen to each episode for free worksheets, tip sheets and much more. Sign up to receive our newsletter for discounts, specials, upcoming workshops and updates to our services. Services we offer: ->1-2-1 Monthly Consultation package ->Trial Preparation & Evidence Organization Services ->Unbundled Services: Uncontested Divorce, Document Prep, Document Review, Legal Research, Background Search, Judge Lookup, Attorney Screen/Vet ->Mediation Service ->Process Servers*Follow me on social media @TheDivorceSolutionist or @FamilyCourtStrategist Language: en-us Genres: Education, How To, Relationships, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Your Case is Losing Traction & You Have No Idea Why | Season 3 Episode 7
Episode 7
Wednesday, 4 February, 2026
862.800.7850 In this episode of “Self-Represented in Family Court”, Tracey Bee breaks down a common (and frustrating) reality: your case can lose traction even when you have “strong evidence.”Why? Because in Family Court, outcomes often hinge less on how much you have, and more on how you position and present your case, how you manage timing, and whether your narrative matches what the court can actually act on.This is a practical episode focused on helping you stop guessing, stop reacting emotionally, and start approaching your next move with strategy.What You’ll LearnWhy “more evidence” isn’t automatically persuasive (and when it can backfire);The difference between evidence and admissible, relevant evidence in proper format;Why “fairness” is not the standard family court is built around;How lawyers (and others) can unintentionally derail you by telling you what you want to hear;The 3 traction drivers: accountability, timing, and narrative;Why nothing in Family Court is isolated, and why your decisions must reflect the bigger picture;What to watch for: patterns, motives, agendas, and external factors impacting key players.Key TakeawaysSurface isn’t the system. What you think is happening may not be what’s actually driving the decision.“Entitled to” doesn’t mean “you’ll get it.” The law and real-world outcomes aren’t the same thing.Fairness isn’t the framework. Family court is about rules, procedure, discretion, and what’s actionable.Your case doesn’t move on volume. It moves on relevance, clarity, format, and strategy.Next Step ✅ Take the Diagnostic Assessment here (recommended if you want clarity on what’s weakening your positioning/presentation) ✅ Book a 1-Hour Strategy Session Here ✅ Subscribe / Follow the podcast HereSupport the showFamily Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field. Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own? We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes. To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.









