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How to Spot Sincere Love Vs. Dark Manipulation - Dr Harry Reis
Episode 213
Friday, 18 September, 2026

Psychological insights and actionable strategies direct to your inbox: https://bradcarr.transistor.fm/newsletter00:00 In This Episode00:35 Introducing Dr. Harry Reis01:08 The Signs That You Are Loved02:02 Love Causing Sadness02:43 The Key to Happiness03:38 The Answer to Pain and Being Unloved04:57 Writing with Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky05:46 Why Relationships Must Come First07:38 The Happiest Countries (Not the USA)08:55 Feeling Unloved Vs. Feeling Lonely10:55 Healing the Pain of Loneliness11:44 Harry's Pioneering Relationship Research14:44 Where to Look for Love17:15 Red Flags In Finding Love19:44 Relationships With Dangerous People24:02 What to Share With People25:50 How to Listen Well. Attention Is Key.28:24 How to Learn to Connect With People30:30 The Cost of Talking With AI Chatbots31:50 The Seesaw: Mutual Support34:42 Gut Feelings and Trust37:00 Gut Feelings and Breaking Up38:22 Gut Feelings and Implicit Cognition42:09 Gut Feelings and Love at First Sight43:39 Multiplicity: We've All Done Bad Things48:09 Distressed Marriages and Feeling Loved48:51 How Much Should We Tolerate In a Relationship?51:33 Cognitive Dissonance and Feeling Loved54:02 Sincere Apologies and Lying59:57 How to Recognize a Liar57:23 Finding Love After Pain59:14 The Cost of Being Alone1:00:21 How to Find Love After a Loss1:02:32 Reappraisal: The Cure for Rumination1:05:45 Don't Give Up On Relationships1:07:33 The Risk and Pain of Divorce1:08:35 Put Away Your Phone1:10:11 Love Languages1:11:38 find Dr Harry Reis online1:12:28 Teaching the World About Relationships1:13:47 Further RecommendationsRESOURCESInterview with Jennifer R. Young: https://youtu.be/i3wk1RdfHiIHarry Reis's book: https://amzn.to/4ycIgVCBrad's microphone: https://amzn.to/4jVOjqq🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNpDr. Harry Reis explains how to distinguish genuine love from manipulation tactics such as love-bombing and deception that ultimately lead to toxic relationships.