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The Selfish WomanAuthor: Valerie Jones
This podcast isn't here to inspire you - it's here to summon you. Hosted by Valerie Jones, this podcast is a transmission for women who are done playing nice, done waiting for permission, and done living small. If you've been burning quietly, this show hands you the match. Each episode delivers the raw truth you didn't know you needed - part mirror, part wake-up call, part spiritual slap. This isn't self-help. This is a reckoning. A return. A revolution. Language: en Genres: Education, Relationships, Self-Improvement, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Stress Is Not The Problem...This Is: With Dr. Rachel Goldman
Episode 131
Monday, 23 March, 2026
We've all been there: a plan falls apart, a deadline shifts, or a minor inconvenience feels like the end of the world. Or, we spend way too much of our time and energy worrying about 'what if.' We usually blame the situation for how we feel, but today's guest says the 'problem' isn't what's happening - it's how we're wired to react to it. I'm joined by Dr. Rachel Goldman, a clinical psychologist, NYU professor, and a leading expert in the mind-body connection who has shared her insights alongside icons like Oprah and Mel Robbins. Ahead of the April launch of her highly anticipated book, "When Life Happens," Dr. Rachel breaks down the science of CBT and explains why we need to stop trying to 'delete' stress and start building a Coping Toolbox. This episode is a survival guide for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the weight of 'doing it all' and is ready to reclaim their peace of mind. What We Discuss: The Stress Reframe: Why stress is inevitable, but our physiological and mental reaction to it is a choice. The "All or Nothing" Trap: How to break the cycle of perfectionism when things go sideways. Building Your Coping Toolbox: Specific strategies to regulate your emotions in real time. Mindset as a Skill: Why resilience isn't a personality trait - it's a strategy you can train. When Life Happens: A deep dive into the mindset shifts needed to navigate life's messiest moments. Resources & Links: Pre-Order the Book Follow Dr. Rachel Subscribe to The Selfish Woman Podcast on Spotify Subscribe to The Selfish Woman Podcast on Apple








