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The 3Ls PodcastAuthor: Emmanuel/Mariam Asuquo
Welcome to The 3Ls Podcast, a raw, unfiltered, and hilarious take on marriage, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between. Were a husband-and-wife duo, married nearly 15 years with four kids and more stories than we can count. Each week, we dive into the highs and lows of building a life together, from dating and raising children to navigating finances, intimacy, and family drama. Well also break down the money moves and mindset shifts that help couples build wealth and create a legacy for their families. Because love is great, but generational impact? Thats the real goal. Expect real talk, laughter, a little bit of raunchiness (because marriage isnt always PG), and lessons weve learned along the way. Whether youre dating, newly married, knee-deep in parenting, or just curious how couples make it work, this is the podcast for you. New episodes every Friday.Subscribe and join us as we share the journey of building love, money, and legacy. Language: en Genres: Business, Entrepreneurship, Relationships, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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My Ex Is Still Around… Should I Tell My Partner? | The 3L's Podcast Ep 37
Episode 37
Thursday, 23 April, 2026
How honest should you really be in marriage? In this episode of The 3L Podcast, Eman and Mimi have one of their rawest conversations yet as they unpack honesty, transparency, past relationships, boundaries, sex, trust, and the things couples wish they never asked. Should your partner know everyone you’ve been with? Do exes still deserve a place in your friendship circle? Is hiding details protecting your marriage or protecting yourself? And when does “being honest” cross the line into trauma dumping? The conversation gets deep as they discuss: • Whether married couples should have access to each other’s phones • If your partner deserves to know your full dating history • Why some truths create insecurity instead of intimacy • How timing changes the way honesty is received • Why respect matters more than brutal honesty • The danger of asking questions you’re not emotionally ready for • Sex, comparison, and the pressure of being “the best” • How childhood experiences affect communication in marriage • Why transparency builds trust when handled properly They also react to a dilemma about a woman struggling with the weight of truths her partner shared years earlier. Was he being honest because he loved her, or because confessing made him feel better? This episode is funny, uncomfortable, honest, and full of real marriage conversations most couples avoid. If you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, this discussion will make you think differently about communication and emotional safety in relationships. Marriage is not built on perfection. It’s built on trust, wisdom, timing, and learning how to speak truth without destroying the person you love. Watch until the end and let us know in the comments: Can you be TOO honest in a relationship?
