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My Marriage MentorsAuthor: Dr. Adrianne & Ovett Wilson
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My Marriage Mentors: Season 2 Episode 5: Four Type of Differences in Relationship
Episode 5
Monday, 23 June, 2025
Every relationship is a unique blend of two individuals, and with that comes the inevitability of differences. Our latest episode dives deep into the crucial topic of how these inherent differences are not dealbreakers1, but rather the very measure by which the health of a relationship is often tested and measured1. We explore the profound insight that how you handle differences tells a lot about who you are and what you think.Join us as we break down four distinct types of differences that can completely shift the paradigm of how you view and navigate your relationship's unique dynamics. From the destructive pattern of Rejected Differences, which breeds tension, distance, resentment, and can escalate to contempt – identified by Dr. John Gottman as the number one predictor of divorce with a 94% prediction rate – to the more constructive approaches.We'll explore Tolerated Differences, which require a longsuffering approach and self-control to coexist peacefully when a difference isn't a "hill to die on". Then, we elevate the conversation to Respected Differences, which go beyond mere tolerance to acknowledging and valuing your partner's individuality, fostering trust and appreciation. Finally, we celebrate Celebrated Differences, seeing the elegance and beauty in uniqueness, operating from a mindset preoccupied with gratitude, and understanding that "we" is more important than "me".This episode will highlight how shifting from a mindset of depreciation to one of appreciation can transform how you handle the differences you share. Learn how understanding and embracing these inevitable differences can help you build a stronger bond and grow your relationship by utilizing what each person brings to the table. Don't miss this essential guide to turning potential conflict into a pathway for deeper connection.
