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Black Girl BurnoutAuthor: Kelley Bonner
Black Girl Burnout is a podcast uniquely tailored for black women that guides you from burnout to joy and abundance. Tune in three times a week for 20-minute or less episodes brimming with actionable tips, empowering personal stories, and transformative perspectives. Join us on a journey filled with liberation, celebration, community, and joy. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Softness Needs Structure: Tools to Interrupt Burnout Before You Collapse
Wednesday, 25 February, 2026
Softness isn’t sustained by intention alone — it requires structure. In this episode, Kelley moves beyond philosophy and shares the practical tools she personally uses when she feels burnout creeping in. From recognizing early warning signs like doom scrolling and “tweak loops,” to using nervous system regulation, phone blockers, routines, therapy, and healthy escapism, this conversation is about building support before collapse happens. Staying human is the work — and support is how we keep doing it.Key TakeawaysBurnout shows up in habits first. Pay attention to early signs like poor sleep, urgency without clarity, excessive revising, or physical symptoms.Nervous system regulation is a daily practice, not an emergency fix. Pausing, breathing, moving your body, and centering physical comfort interrupt spirals early.Structure protects softness. Phone blockers, routines, therapy, coaching apps, and healthy escapism create guardrails so you don’t rely on willpower alone.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:02:19 – Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic: how habits become early warning signs00:06:21 – The power of the pause: using “Let me get back to you” as nervous system regulation00:16:16 – Why willpower fails under stress — and how external structure (like phone blockers and routines) protects softness00:24:24 – Healthy escapism vs. numbing: how to tell the difference and why joy is protectiveGentle InvitationThis week, instead of waiting for collapse, notice your early signs.What habit shows up when you’re overwhelmed? What good habit disappears?Choose one small guardrail — maybe a 24-hour pause before saying yes, putting your phone in time-out for an hour, or anchoring your morning with one repeatable ritual. Not ten changes. Just one.Build support around your softness.Let that be enough for now.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
