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Turning 30 PodcastAuthor: Emma Wilson
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How to Survive a Break-up with Cole Zesiger
Friday, 6 March, 2026
This week I'm joined by Cole Zesiger, a breakup and relationship coach who has helped over 2,000 people navigate heartbreak. After going through a divorce at 23 and jumping into a rebound relationship that also ended, Cole rebuilt his life from scratch and now teaches others how to do the same. He also just released his first book, Exes and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear.This is one of the rare episodes where we have a male guest, and I loved getting Cole's perspective on breakups, rebounds, and what it actually takes to be ready for love again.What we cover:Why breakups are so devastating. It's not just losing the person, it's losing the entire future you imagined with them.The science behind heartbreak. Studies show that romantic rejection activates the same brain patterns as withdrawing from hard drugs. This explains why we do irrational things after a breakup.The truth about no contact. Why treating a breakup like a detox is often the fastest path to healing, and why it's also the best strategy if you genuinely want to get back together.Can you actually get back with an ex? Cole shares when reconciliation works, when it doesn't, and a story about a couple who reunited after divorce and are still going strong years later.The rebound trap. Why jumping into a new relationship too quickly often just delays the grief, and how Cole learned this the hard way.How to know when you're ready to date again. Not "fully healed" but "happy enough" with your life that you won't just take the first person who shows interest.The dating rules that keep you single. Why building a rigid checklist after heartbreak often backfires and screens out great people for meaningless reasons.How to talk about your ex on early dates. The difference between making your ex the main character of the story versus making yourself the main character.Resources mentioned:Cole's new book, Exes and No's: coachcolezesiger.com/exsandnosWork with Cole: coachcolezesiger.com/bookingCole on Instagram: @coachcolezesigerConnect with Emma:Instagram: @turning30coachJoin the Turning Community: https://www.turning30coach.com/turning-lpIf this episode helped you see breakups differently, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.
