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Real Men Feel with Andy GrantAuthor: Andy Grant
Real Men Feel helps men grow beyond outdated rules of masculinity to live with authenticity, purpose, and joy. Since 2016, host Andy Grant has explored how vulnerability, courage, and real conversation fuel personal growth, self-improvement, and emotional well-being. Silver Signal Award Winner Most Inspirational Podcast & Best Self-Help Show. Join our free community for men at https://realmenfeel.org/group Want to be a guest? Connect with Andy on PodMatch, https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/realmenfeel Show notes & resources: https://realmenfeel.org Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Redefining Success: The Hollow Man Syndrome
Episode 395
Friday, 20 March, 2026
The Hollow Man Syndrome: Redefining Success, Vulnerability, and the New AlphaHost Andy Grant interviews Kenyada Meadows, a Bank of America senior vice president and master certified executive coach, about “hollow man syndrome”—men who appear successful but feel empty and unfulfilled. Meadows explains the metaphor of a strong tree with decaying roots and describes how hollowing out can manifest as strained relationships, self-medicating, short tempers, or acting out. He contrasts traditional “alpha” achievement-driven masculinity with “emotional integrity,” emphasizing vulnerability, community, and emotional literacy as skills for connection and asking for help. Meadows outlines his “New Alpha” framework of three domains—relationships at work, at home, and with oneself—critiques the myth of perfect work-life balance with the idea of “wobbling well,” and discusses re-parenting the inner child, grace, and intentional reflection. He shares taking four months of paid parental leave in a competitive Wall Street environment, finding no downside, and encourages men to broaden “providing” beyond money to presence and communication.00:00 The Hollow Tree Metaphor00:31 Meet Kenyada Meadows01:32 Defining Hollow Man Syndrome04:19 Personal Turning Points05:37 Mentorship and The New Alpha08:23 Costs of Traditional Alpha09:56 Emotional Integrity Skills14:38 Why High Achievers Feel Empty16:31 Wobbling Work Life Balance18:40 Reparenting the Inner Child21:07 Taking Paternity Leave24:02 Providing Beyond Money28:04 Three Domains Framework29:49 Rethinking Alpha Culture32:46 Connect and Final Takeaway36:15 Closing and Community InviteConnect with KenyadaKenyada Meadows — https://www.executiveparentcompany.com/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenyadameadowscpaciacfe/ResourcesThe New Alpha: Be Three Times the Leader Through Balance, Not Dominance by Kenyada Meadows — https://amzn.to/4bA4BCVConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 396
