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Meredith for Real: the curious introvertAuthor: Meredith Hackwith Edwards
Each episode explores a taboo question or cultural blind spot with an expert who is themselves, a paradox -Like the atheist doctor who studied near death experiences for 50 years (ep 224)Or the deeply religious man studied by NASA who sees UFOs regularly (ep 261).The mission is to inspire the kind of curiosity that looks for & celebrates nuance, because we all deserve a more curious future.So tune in each week (new episodes every Monday) to question things like American individualism (ep 260), trigger warnings (ep 208) & circumcision (ep 178).Still not sure where to start?Other listeners loved ep 230 - Can a sexless marriage survive? and ep 237 - Black man who attends KKK rallies: race & friendship Language: en-us Genres: Science, Social Sciences, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Ep. 321: Relationship Boundaries: NIGHTMARES, Ultimatums & Inner Demons
Episode 321
Sunday, 7 December, 2025
Are healthy boundaries lines in the sand? Going no contact? KC Davis is licensed professional counselor, host of the podcast Struggle Care & author of Who Deserves your love: how to create boundaries to start, strengthen or end any relationship.In this episode, she unpacks the girl bossification of boundaries, the decision flowchart of no contact, how values make “hard calls” easier & how the internet sells quipping one-liners & emphasizes hard lines over nuance. Guest:https://www.strugglecare.com/ https://www.instagram.com/strugglecare/ https://www.facebook.com/StruggleCare/ https://a.co/d/1b1H1tT Host: https://www.meredithforreal.com/ https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/ meredith@meredithforreal.comhttps://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert Sponsors: https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/ https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/ 00:00 — Shower fights & imaginary comebacks01:50 — Boundaries aren’t quippy one-liners03:58 — When the boundary advice trap backfires04:22 — The real definition of an internal boundary05:05 — How to prep for real-life conflict (not Instagram conflict)05:42 — Thanksgiving, awkward uncles & psychic responsibility10:20 — Awareness as Boundary Step One10:55 — MythBuster: Is there always a winner and a loser?13:07 — The vulnerability cycle explained14:10 — When your “issues” aren’t actually your issues16:22 — How two people accidentally activate each other18:17 — Boundary Disaster #1: The evangelizing step-dad20:02 — “Reasonable requests don’t make unreasonable people comply”21:11 — Deciding what’s livable — not magical24:14 — Why reframing the offender sometimes helps25:26 — The stories we tell about other people’s behavior28:05 — Compassion vs. justifying harm32:00 — Boundary Disaster #2: The secret sex-offender friend33:10 — KC’s decision tree for impossible situations36:08 — Why values make “hard calls” easier37:02 — MythBuster: Does cheating predict cheating?40:02 — MythBuster: Must you heal before you date?43:03 — Boundary Disaster #3: Grandma, screen time & parental authority44:00 — “How do I get her to respect my decisions?”47:55 — Middle-ground boundaries for real parents48:35 — Final thoughts: Boundaries as self-ownershipRequest to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/
