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Meredith for Real: the curious introvertAuthor: Meredith Hackwith Edwards
Each episode explores a taboo question or cultural blind spot with an expert who is themselves, a paradox -Like the atheist doctor who studied near death experiences for 50 years (ep 224)Or the deeply religious man studied by NASA who sees UFOs regularly (ep 261).The mission is to inspire the kind of curiosity that looks for & celebrates nuance, because we all deserve a more curious future.So tune in each week (new episodes every Monday) to question things like American individualism (ep 260), trigger warnings (ep 208) & circumcision (ep 178).Still not sure where to start?Other listeners loved ep 230 - Can a sexless marriage survive? and ep 237 - Black man who attends KKK rallies: race & friendship Language: en-us Genres: Science, Social Sciences, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Ep. 337: Can a Sexless Marriage Survive? [REMASTERED]
Episode 337
Sunday, 29 March, 2026
What exactly is considered "sexless"? What are we counting as sex? What would cause someone to not want to have sex all of a sudden? These are all questions I unpacked with Xanet Pailet. She was a successful healthcare lawyer married to an attorney with two children. She lived in a beautiful home in NYC as well as a sexless marriage. At age 45 and no sex for over 15 years, she considered sex as something she was just done with. Now she is a full time intimacy educator with a fulfilling sex life. You’ll hear about resentment caused pain, the stuck place of indifference, what men are afraid of, medical procedures that can cause painful sex & listener Q & A from my Facebook group. This episode originally aired March 11, 2024. If you liked this episode, you’ll also like episode 214: WHAT ARE THE RULES OF MONOGAMY? THE PSYCHOLOGIST SWINGER Guest:https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/https://www.powerofpleasure.com/ https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/https://twitter.com/powerofpleasurehttps://www.facebook.com/xanetpop Sponsors: https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/ https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/ 01:00 — What actually counts as “sexless”03:00 — The “charcuterie board” of intimacy06:00 — Separate bedrooms, separate lives07:00 — Never masturbated… until 4809:00 — When pleasure and anxiety get wired together10:00 — Medical trauma no one talks about13:00 — Circumcision, sensation, and what we lose14:00 — Are some sexual issues permanent?16:00 — The emotional root of physical pain17:00 — Why resentment can make sex hurt18:00 — When your partner feels like your child20:00 — Masculine vs feminine energy in relationships22:00 — Why men stop initiating (and don’t say why)24:00 — Consent confusion and modern dating fears26:00 — When no sex is… totally fine27:00 — The menopause “I don’t care anymore” myth28:00 — When bad sex kills desire completely31:00 — The surprise return of desire after divorce33:00 — The real answer: can it survive?36:00 — Rebuilding intimacy from zero40:00 — The hidden reality of sex in Japan41:00 — Should you open the relationship?43:00 — Sexless dynamics in same-sex couples45:00 — Porn, gaming, and disconnection48:00 — Rethinking sex after physical limitations53:00 — Outercourse, body mapping, and new pathways55:00 — Menopause, pain, and what actually helps57:00 — Why “working on it” feels overwhelming59:00 — The missing piece: non-sexual intimacyRequest to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/Follow me in all the places:https://www.meredithforreal.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_curiousintrovert/ meredith@meredithforreal.comhttps://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal https://www.facebook.com/curiousintrovert
