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Built For Life, Not Just WealthAuthor: Ryan Burklo & Alex Collins Language: en-us Genres: Business, Investing, Management Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Episode 371 - What Do You Want That Is Keeping You From What You Want?
Monday, 21 September, 2026
Built For Life, Not Just Wealth is the podcast from Ryan Burklo and Alex Collins of Quantified Financial Partners in the Greater Seattle area. Earlier episodes were published as Beer & Money and Holistic Finance. In today's episode of Built For Life, Not Just Wealth, what if the thing blocking your financial progress is just one tiny word? Ryan Burklo reveals why the difference between saying "but" and "and" can expose the real tension behind your money goals - whether you want to build wealth, retire earlier, help your kids, or keep your lifestyle exactly the same. If you've ever felt stuck trying to want two good things at once, this episode gives you a better way to name it. Ryan breaks down how "and" changes the conversation from wishful thinking to honest trade-offs. Instead of forcing yourself to pick one goal too early, you'll learn how to identify competing priorities, test whether both can actually be true, and understand what has to change if they can't. Check out our website: https://www.builtforlifenotjustwealth.com/ Find us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@builtforlifenotjustwealth/ Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.quantifiedfinancial.com/subscribe-now Check out our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanburklofinance?igsh=ZTJzN3Jnajd5M2Mw Ryan Burklo's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanburklo/ Alex Collin's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandercollins/ For a quick assessment of your current financial life go to: https://www.livingbalancesheet.com/lbsVision/lite/RyanBurklo #BuiltForLifeNotJustWealth #goalsetting #financialplanning #lifebalance #SethGodin #mindset #personaldevelopment Takeaways Using 'and' instead of 'but' reveals competing goals that need reconciliation. Recognizing your 'and' helps create more realistic and achievable plans. Asking three key questions can clarify whether goals are possible and what trade-offs are involved. Understanding the tension between goals can lead to better decision-making. Writing down your conflicting desires makes it easier to address them intentionally. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the 'And' Concept 02:02 The Role of Tension in Planning 04:33 Building a Plan for Multiple Goals 05:19 Practical Steps to Clarify Your 'And' 06:13 Key Questions to Ask Yourself 07:03 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
