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An Ounce - For Your ConsiderationAuthor: Jim Fugate
Discover hidden stories from historybite-sized, clever tales that challenge what you thought you knew. At An Ounce, we uncover the little moments that quietly changed everything, surprising truths, and fascinating facts you wont hear elsewhere.Im Jim Fugateretired firefighter, lifelong learner, and an outside-the-box thinker who loves sharing historys hidden gems. These quick, engaging stories dont take themselves too seriously, wont steal your precious time, and might just make you feel a little bit smarter.I hope youll join a community of curious minds who enjoy a fresh take on historywhere conversation is always open and everyones invited. Language: en-us Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Deflating a Little Monster That’s a Big Problem
Episode 3
Tuesday, 20 January, 2026
Most people don’t wake up wanting to despise someone — yet contempt keeps showing up anyway.In this episode of An Ounce, a small allegorical story reveals how contempt quietly grows, why it feels bigger than it is, and how it loses power when we stop feeding it.This isn’t a lecture.It’s a pattern worth noticing.If you’ve ever wondered how disagreement turns into dismissal — and how easily it can be reversed — this one’s for you.If it resonates, feel free to share it with someone else who might appreciate it.Another episode you'll also enjoy How to Disagree: https://youtu.be/qrU64J4jMcIChapters:00:00 – Introduction00:19 – The Unsettling Conclusion00:54 – Introducing the Monster01:48 – Inflated/Deflated02:32 – They Preferred the Monster02:56 – Ridiculous?04:03 – Facing the Annoying Human05:20 – An OunceFurther Reading & ReferencesFor those interested in the psychology behind contempt, disagreement, and how certainty can quietly overpower understanding:• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work — John GottmanGroundbreaking research identifying contempt as the strongest predictor of relational breakdown.• The Righteous Mind — Jonathan HaidtExplains why people talk past each other — and how moral certainty often outruns understanding.• Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) — Carol Tavris & Elliot AronsonWhy people double down instead of reassessing — and how rehearsal hardens belief.• Meditations — Marcus AureliusA timeless exploration of withholding judgment, resisting contempt, and recognizing shared human frailty.
