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Your Feelings are the Compass: The Emotionally Savvy Divorce with Katherine Eisold Miller on Divorce & Beyond #436
Episode 475
Monday, 2 November, 2026
Get your emotions under control. Set the feelings aside. Treat it like a business deal. It’s advice you hear again and again in divorce circles, and this week’s episode of Divorce & Beyond just may make you rethink it. That advice isn’t just hard to follow. It’s backwards. Susan Guthrie welcomes Katherine Eisold Miller author of The Emotionally Savvy Divorce to discuss why your fear, your anger, and that knot in your stomach over the house aren’t what’s standing in your way. They’re information, telling you exactly what matters most. Katherine knows the divorce process from both sides of the table. She was a family litigator when she went through her own divorce, and sitting in that chair confirmed just how disorienting, scary, and enraging the process can be for the people living through it. She came back to the work with a complete paradigm shift and a new answer to the question her clients kept asking: What do I do with the feelings? Together, Susan and Katherine turn the usual advice on its head. Instead of shutting your emotions down, Katherine shows you how to listen to them. Underneath the fear and the anger is the clearest information you have about what you truly want for your life on the other side of divorce. The best part, one deceptively simple question unlocks all of it. What You’ll Learn Why your emotions in divorce are not the enemy but information pointing at what matters most to you How asking one simple question with curiosity and not judgment gets you underneath “I want the house” to what you actually need Why divorce is a traffic circle between the life that was and the life that will be, and how your emotions can help you choose your exit on purpose How knowing your soon-to-be-ex better than anyone becomes a superpower Get this week's FREE RESOURCE: The What's Up With That Worksheet https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/latest-episode About this week's special guest: Katherine Eisold Miller Katherine E. Miller is the founder of Miller Law Group, where she and her team have helped hundreds of families navigate divorce with dignity for over two decades. A trainer at the Center for Understanding in Conflict and host of the Divorce Dialogues podcast, Katherine has dedicated her career to transforming how people experience one of life’s most difficult transitions. CONNECT WITH KATHERINE EISOLD MILLER: Website: https://katherinemiller.com/ Book: The Emotionally Savvy Divorce Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/millerlaw_ny/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ If This Episode Helped You Follow Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share it with someone who needs clear, reliable guidance right now. And if you have a moment, a five-star review makes a real difference in helping the show reach the people who need it most. Follow Divorce & Beyond Website: divorceandbeyondpod.com Instagram: instagram.com/divorceandbeyondpod About the Host: Susan Guthrie, Esq. Susan Guthrie is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation attorneys, with more than 35 years of experience helping people navigate divorce with clarity and strategy. She is a Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker and trainer. Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has contributed to The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Town & Country, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others. As the creator and host of Divorce & Beyond, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 1.3 million downloads and an Apple Top 100 Self-Help designation, Susan brings together leading legal and mental health experts to help listeners move through divorce and into what comes next. Learn more at divorceandbeyondpod.com/about. Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions shared on this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state regarding your specific situation.











