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Shameless SexA Real-Talk Podcast on Sex and Relationships Author: Amy Baldwin
Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shameless Sex is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Language: en Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Self-Improvement, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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#508 True Dominance Starts with Mastering YOU with Justin Adams
Monday, 19 October, 2026
In this episode, we sit down with Justin Adams, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explore dominance as something far deeper than bedroom technique, power, or performance. A Brooklyn-based practitioner and educator, Justin approaches dominance as a discipline of character rooted in self-authored ethics, ritual, self-awareness, and the responsibility that comes with being trusted by another person.Drawing on Taoism, Stoicism, and Jungian shadow integration, Justin offers a thoughtful alternative to both Manosphere masculinity and the often-sanitized conversations surrounding mainstream kink culture. We get into the psychology of power, the difference between healthy authority and pathological control, and why true dominance begins with mastering yourself.We also unpack nice guy syndrome and how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and unspoken expectations can undermine confidence, intimacy, and sexual dynamics. Is dominance something every man can benefit from learning, even if he doesn't identify as kinky? And what separates a man who simply likes being in control in the bedroom from someone who understands the responsibility of wielding power?From building trust and practicing healthy dominance to exploring how BDSM can foster deeper communication and stronger relationships, Justin shares practical insights for anyone interested in becoming more intentional in their relationships and sexuality.We also discuss his forthcoming book, Way of Surrender: The Tao of BDSM, which explores a compelling paradox: the Dominant surrenders to the Tao, while the submissive surrenders to the Dominant. Plus, we talk about his work giving submissives a platform to share their own experiences and perspectives, challenging the tendency to speak about them rather than listen to them.In this conversation, we explore:Dominance as a discipline of character rather than a collection of techniquesThe difference between healthy dominance, control, and manipulationWhy dominance isn't necessarily synonymous with kinkNice guy syndrome, people-pleasing, and the dynamics of desirePractical tools for developing confidence and healthy authorityHow BDSM can deepen trust, communication, and intimacyWhy sexual dominance without education or preparation can be problematicThe philosophy of surrender, power exchange, and personal responsibilityWhether you're curious about BDSM, interested in masculine identity and personal growth, or looking to build more honest, intentional relationships, this conversation challenges conventional ideas about power, masculinity, and what it truly means to lead.Learn more about Justin's work and The Dominance Academy at https://thedominanceacademy.com/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thedominanceacademySubstack: https://open.substack.com/pub/thedominanceacademyLearn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreatDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListFollow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links:Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.comBring the heat back into your sex life with $10 off your first month at http://getarya.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
