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Sex and What Place it Has in Divorce
Episode 5
Thursday, 28 August, 2025
Sexuality powerfully shapes our relationships, often revealing deeper issues when intimacy falters. The Three Wise Men delve into this complex territory lead by Pete Roussos, a licensed sex therapist, to exploring how sexual dysfunction typically signals problems elsewhere in a relationship.The conversation uncovers how respect forms the foundation of healthy sexual connection. When partners feel disrespected or unacknowledged outside the bedroom, sexual dynamics inevitably suffer. This erosion creates vulnerability to outside validation, making affairs more likely. Perhaps most thought-provoking is the concept of "an affair with integrity" – challenging conventional thinking by suggesting true integrity would involve honest communication about changing boundaries before any lines are crossed.The experts examine how affairs represent one partner unilaterally removing the other's choice, constituting the fundamental betrayal beyond the physical act itself. They explore gender differences in experiencing betrayal, the complexities of transitioning to open relationships, and how religious values shape sexual expectations. The discussion challenges the concept of "sexual addiction," suggesting it's a way to avoid accountability for choices.For couples navigating divorce, understanding these dynamics offers valuable perspective. The healthiest separations happen when both parties recognize incompatibilities around sexuality reflect differences in authentic needs rather than personal rejection. Therapy during divorce isn't "failed" if the marriage ends – it succeeds when it helps individuals better understand themselves before entering new relationships.Whether you're struggling in your current relationship or rebuilding after separation, this episode provides compassionate insight into how sexuality connects to our deepest needs for respect, authenticity, and meaningful connection. Subscribe for more wisdom from these experts in psychology, finance, and family law – each bringing decades of experience to help you navigate relationship challenges with greater clarity.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney.
