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Eden RestoredAuthor: Dr. Stacy L. Spencer and Rhonda Spencer
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Don't Blow the Moment: Why Rushing Kills Intimacy | Eden Restored
Friday, 16 January, 2026
In this episode of Eden Restored, Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer unpack a provocative verse from the Song of Songs: "Come blow on my garden." They explore why intimacy was never meant to be rushed, how women's bodies respond differently than men's, and how patience, presence, and intentionality turn sex into something healing, sacred, and deeply connecting for married and seriously dating couples.Are you ready to take your Love, Marriage, and love life to the next level? Tune in to our Love and Marriage podcast to hear experts discuss all things relationship-related! Learn real secrets, tips, and tricks to help you feel the love. Join us Every Friday at 7pm. 💞 #LoveAndMarriage #love #marriage #relationship #marriage #marriedlife #marriagegoals #love #podcastwww.TheEdenCircle.comThe Eden Circle is an exclusive membership in the inner circle of Dr. Stacy L. Spencer and Rhonda Spencer. It is a select group of married couples who receive coaching concerning intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, spiritual guidance, and sexual healing.Chapters00:00 – 00:46: Open00:46 – 01:26: Welcome01:26 – 02:22: What Song of Songs Is Really Talking About02:22 – 03:27: Why Women’s Bodies Need Time (Crock Pot vs. Ramen)03:27 – 04:09: What Rushing Does to the Nervous System04:09 – 05:05: “Blow on My Garden” Means Gentleness, Not Force05:05 – 06:02: Why the Whole Body Matters in Intimacy06:02 – 06:59: Intimacy Starts Long Before the Bedroom06:59 – 08:07: Taking Time Changes the Experience of Connection08:07 – 09:00: Myrrh, Healing, and the Body’s Design09:00 – 10:17: Why Women Don’t Need Products to Be “Pleasant”10:17 – 11:17: “You Are What You Eat”11:17 – 12:07: The Beauty of a Healthy, Natural Body12:07 – 13:03: Frankincense, Worship, and Sacred Sexuality13:03 – 13:57: Sex as a Spiritual, Covenant Act13:57 – 14:55: Setting the Stage for Intimacy14:55 – 15:50: Helping Her Relax 15:50 – 16:15: Intentionality Builds Desire16:15 – 17:18: Addressing the Discomfort Around Oral Sex17:18 – 18:13: Why Many Women “Go Along” Without Enjoyment18:13 – 19:10: Foreplay Is Not Optional — It’s Essential19:10 – 19:41: Not Every Moment Has to End in Climax19:41 – 20:13: Take Your Time — This Is the Point20:13 – 21:14: Eden Circle 21:14 – 22:33: Closing Blessing
