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The Intentional Surgeon with Sharon L. Stein, MDAuthor: Sharon L. Stein, MD
Welcome to The Intentional Surgeon, where we dive deep into the people, institutions, and ideas reshaping the culture of surgery. Hosted by Dr. Sharon Stein, an internationally recognized colorectal surgeon, professor, and change agent, this podcast explores the challenges and opportunities transforming the surgical world. Each episode features inspiring guests who are pioneering new ways to practice surgery, educate future surgeons, and redefine patient care and the surgical workforce. Join Dr. Stein on this thought-provoking journey to discover how innovation is driving change and improving the future of surgery. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Medicine, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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S03E09: Stop Saying Yes to Everything with Dr. Sharon L. Stein
Episode 9
Tuesday, 26 May, 2026
As surgeons, we’ve all been told the same lie: The only way to get ahead in your career is to say yes to everything. We are conditioned to believe that if we turn down a single opportunity, committee, or research project, the powers that be will stop asking, and our academic or clinical careers will stall.In this episode on the Intentional Surgeon, Dr. Sharon L. Stein dispels this toxic surgical myth. Drawing from her own unconventional path, including the time her mentors told her she was committing "academic suicide" by dropping to a four-day work week, Sharon shares how learning to say yes selectively actually accelerated her success as a busy clinician, professor, and national society president.In This Episode, I Discuss:Why saying no to the wrong things doesn’t kill your career—it actually makes your time more valuable.A hard truth for perfectionist surgeons: doing a job badly is significantly worse than not doing it at all.The Opportunity Framework: Before accepting any new role, filter it through these five metrics to ensure it aligns with your short- or long-term goals:Skills: Will it teach you a new technical technique or leadership capability?Networking: Who will you be working alongside, and can you learn from them?Goodwill: Is it building social capital with your chief or the hospital CFO?Advancement: Is this a necessary rung on your path to chair or society president?Control: Will this role give you more autonomy over your schedule or resources?Bonus: Fun! Don't discount an invitation simply because it sounds enjoyable or involves travel to a great culture.The "Negotiated Yes": How to protect your plate when your boss forces an assignment on you. Sharon breaks down the four ways to negotiate constraints:Time-limiting: offering a 6-month term instead of a year.Scope-limiting: writing the proposal but passing off the board presentation.Effort-limiting: accepting that some hospital paperwork only needs "B-grade" work, not an A-plus treatise.Additional Assistance: demanding administrative or clinical support to get the job done.The Three Ways to Deliver a Respectful "No": How to turn down an invitation while preserving the relationship, including the power of sponsorship—passing the opportunity to a junior colleague or fellow to help build their CV.Key Takeaway for Listeners:"Saying yes to everything is not the answer to anything. Truly effective and successful surgeons aren't doing it all — they are incredibly focused on what they love and what they are good at, which means they are saying 'no' to a whole lot else." — Dr. Sharon SteinChallenge for the Week:Pull out a sticky note and audit your week. Track how many times you say "yes" to an add-on patient, a meeting, or a schedule change versus how many times you protect your time with a "no." If you are sitting on a committee playing Tetris on your phone just to have a line on your CV, it might be time to take something off your platter.Connect with Sharon:Do you disagree? Has saying "no" ever backfired in your department? Sharon wants to hear your stories.Website: www.intentionalsurgeon.com
