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The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Mens Sexual HealthAuthor: Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett
With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcasthosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett offers groundbreaking conversations about mens sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronies disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the Unexpected Sexologist, brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked mens health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnightstart listening today. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Medicine, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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227: Superman at 67: One Man's Brutally Honest and touching Story of Sex After Prostate Cancer
Episode 228
Tuesday, 25 August, 2026
Episode Overview: Jamie is 10 months on from a radical prostatectomy for Gleason 7 prostate cancer. He is single, in his late 60s, and refreshingly, bracingly honest about what the journey back to sexual function has been like. In this episode, Kate takes the hosting chair and draws out a conversation that goes well beyond the mechanics of rehabilitation and into desire, connection, what it means to pleasure a partner, and why prostate cancer recovery is never just about the man. Jamie's prostate cancer was under observation for a couple of years before it began to progress. When his Gleason score rose to 7 and additional spots appeared, surgery was the clear next step. The operation went well and his PSA is now undetectable. But as every man who has been through this knows, undetectable PSA and feeling like yourself again are two very different things. Post-surgery, Jamie had no erections. He experienced penile shrinkage. He was incontinent. And he had no idea, before surgery, that any of this was coming, because no one had told him in any real detail what to expect. He found Restorative Health Clinic through his prostate nurse a couple of months after surgery, and that is where things began to turn around. What makes this episode stand out is Jamie's willingness to talk about the emotional and relational side of sexual recovery, not just the clinical steps. He talks about what it felt like to have an erection again for the first time after starting intracavernosal injections. He talks about the difference between a soft-penis orgasm and an erection-assisted one. He talks about the joy (his word) of being present with a partner during sex, of being part of her pleasure. And he talks about what he wishes someone had told him before surgery. We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did interviewing Jamie. Golden Tip: Saying 'I just want you to be cancer-free' can land as rejection, even when it comes from love Key Message from Jamie To be able to get an erection again and just enjoy it for what it was — that was empowering, to say the least. You don't appreciate it until you can't have it." Jamie's other message, the one he wanted men to hear most, is to learn to be a generous lover. Pleasure is not a one-way transaction. Being present with a partner, focused on her experience, is one of the most erotic and life-affirming things in sex. He learnt this more deeply through the experience of recovery, and he wishes he had understood it earlier. Resources & Links Book a telehealth appointment with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au Book recommendation: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski — recommended by Melissa for men, women, and anyone raising sons For more information visit our websites: www.rshealth.com.au www.makehardeasy.com.au www.melissahadleybarrett.com Need Support? At Restorative Health Clinic, we support men and their partners with: Penile rehabilitation after prostate cancer treatment Erectile dysfunction Vacuum pump and constriction ring education and prescription Penile injection therapy Intimacy and sexual recovery Partner-inclusive support where appropriate Practical, evidence-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and function We offer telehealth consultations Australia-wide and internationally, making it easier for men to access experienced, compassionate support no matter where they live. If Steve’s story sounds familiar, we would love to hear from you. Restorative Health Clinic also has a psychologist-sexologist joining the team. If you are struggling with the emotional or psychological side of erectile dysfunction, prostate cancer recovery, or intimacy, we can support you there too – as an individual or as a couple. Listen & Subscribe If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review The Penis Project Podcast. Your feedback helps more men and their partners find these conversations. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app. We also have a free email list for updates, episodes, and resources. You can sign up via our website. Connect With Us We love hearing from real people navigating their health. If you would like to share your story or ask a question, get in touch. Email: admin@rshealth.com.au Websites: rshealth.com.au makehardeasy.com.au melissahadleybarrett.com Instagram: @melissahadleybarrett @restorativehealth.clinic YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett Facebook: Melissa Hadley Barrett Restorative Health Clinic LinkedIn: Melissa Hadley Barrett TEDx Talk: Watch on YouTube
