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Authentic Men's Group podcastAuthor: Authentic Men's Group
Welcome to the Authentic Men's Group Podcast, where real conversations spark real change! Hosted by Brian Frizzell, Brock Frizzell, and Reid Hornlicensed therapists and certified Authentic Men's Group coachesour podcast is a beacon for men ready to get real and have real conversations about what matters most. Based in Springfield, Missouri, and Nashville, Tennessee, our mission at AMG (Authentic Men's Group) is simple yet profound: We help men get real so they can get what they really want in life, love, and their legacy. What's Inside Deep Dives into Masculinity: Each month, we explore the many aspects of modern manhoodfrom emotional vulnerability and authenticity to mental health, career success and failures, and relationships. Our discussions tackle topics men wrestle with but often discuss only in whispers if at all. Success Stories: Hear the victories and journeys of men just like you. We share real-life examples from our local and online groups, highlighting the paths of men who have embraced their authentic selves. Curated Knowledge: Don't have time to sift through books and endless resources? We do it for you. We break down key insights from the latest in thought-challenging leadership resources, relationship books, mental health resources, and more that are pertinent to men's growth, saving you time and giving you the essentials to thrive. Real Talk: Authenticity is what we are all about. We open up about our own journeys, practicing what we preach by sharing the ups and downs of our own lives, providing you with relatable, real-world applications of our teachings. Join Our Community: Join us for our monthly podcast episodes where we confront the myths of masculinity, celebrate the progress of our AMG community members, and offer insights into using adversity as a stepping stone to personal success. This podcast isn't just about listeningit's about transforming alongside a community of men dedicated to authenticity and vulnerability. Subscribe to the AMG Po Language: en Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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You Don't Earn Being a Good Man (Part 2)
Episode 98
Tuesday, 23 December, 2025
You Don't Earn Being A Good Man (Part 2) We're talking about what actually happens in a man's life when he believes one story versus the other, how seeing yourself as good or broken shapes your reactions, your relationships, and the way you show up in the world." SECTION 1 — Identity Split (Good Man vs. Bad Man) When a man sees himself as GOOD: More present and grounded. Slower reactions. Empathy increases. Honest about emotions. Healthy boundaries. Accountability without collapse. Less numbing, more connection. Confidence without performing. When a man sees himself as BAD: Overreactions or shutdowns. Withdrawal, isolation. Harsh self-talk. Perfectionism or procrastination. More porn, alcohol, scrolling, workaholism. People-pleasing or controlling. Difficulty receiving love. Self-sabotage. SECTION 2 — Personal Stories "My deeper story was…" "My statue was buried under…" A simple memory or scene that shaped your identity wound. A moment when you realized your goodness wasn't gone. Something another man in AMG said that hit you. A time you behaved badly because you believed you were bad. SECTION 3 — Tools & Practices That Helped "My mistakes are moments, not my identity." Naming shame out loud so it loses power. Shifting from performance to presence. "I'm already good. Start from there." Getting affirmation from other grounded men. Telling the truth in a circle instead of hiding. Practicing receiving encouragement even when it feels uncomfortable. Simple grounding practices: breath, voice, slowing down. SECTION 4 — Why This Matters for Family & Community Your kids mirror your identity more than your actions. Partners feel your groundedness. Men show up differently when they know they're good. Presence replaces defensiveness. Courage replaces avoidance. Integrity replaces performance. Leadership becomes relational, not controlling. CLOSING — The AMG Identity Use these lines as talking points: Goodness is original, not earned. Mistakes are dirt, not identity. The statue has never gone anywhere. You don't "become" a good man — you remember you already were one. This is why AMG exists: men remember their identity together. Identity grows in circles, not isolation. And remember, "You are a good man." We are not saying this as a reward that you have earned or trying to make you feel better, but as a reminder of your identity and how you want to show up for yourself, others, and our community.
