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F*CK Trauma PodcastAuthor: Candice Tamara
The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosenby you first. Its the show that turns your triggers into triumphand your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. Youre not broken. Youre becoming. Language: en Genres: Relationships, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Ep 58: How to Change the Way Someone Treats You in a Relationship Without Chasing Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)
Friday, 20 March, 2026
If you have an anxious attachment style, you’ve probably found yourself chasing, overgiving, and trying to get someone to change only to feel more drained, more confused, and more disconnected..In this episode, I’m showing you how to change the way someone treats you in a relationship without chasing, using the law of assumption and self-concept work..Because here’s the truth:You don’t need to have the same conversation over and over again.You don’t need to beg or your needs to be met.And you don’t need to wait for someone else to change..👉 You change and the dynamic changes..Inside this episode, I break down:Why your relationships keep repeating the same patternsHow your self-concept is shaping how people treat youThe truth about avoidant behaviour (and what it’s really reflecting)How to shift inconsistency, lack of effort, and emotional unavailabilityWhy you’re not being prioritised (and how to change that)How to stop feeling unsupported in relationshipsThe real reason you’re chasing commitment — and how to become chosen insteadHow to stabilise your nervous system so you stop reacting and start creatingPractical steps to shift your relationship without chasing, begging, or over-explainingThis is the work that changes everything.When you shift your identity, your beliefs, and your nervous system…people naturally show up differently..My program Create Your Secure Relationship shows you exactly how to rewire your self-concept, regulate your nervous system, and shift your relationship dynamic in as little as 8 weeks..Includes a pathway specifically for:Shifting a current relationshipReconnecting with someone from the pastAttracting a completely new partnerPlus if you join now, you'll get a live group call with me to personalise the work to your situation..👉 Join Create Your Secure Relationship Here.Free Masterclass: Stop Sabotaging LoveFree Series: 7 Manifestation MistakesSignature Program: Anxious to Secure in Love.Connect with me on Instagram @candicetamara_Ways to work with me: Click here.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!
