F*CK Trauma Podcast

Author: Candice Tamara

The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosenby you first. Its the show that turns your triggers into triumphand your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. Youre not broken. Youre becoming.
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Ep 56: Why Anxious Attachment Struggles to Manifest Love (Law of Assumption & Self-Concept)
Friday, 13 February, 2026

If you have anxious attachment and you’re trying to manifest love, this episode will explain exactly why it can feel harder for you - especially when using the Law of Assumption..You’ve been told to “just assume you have it.”.To “live in the end.”.To “stop checking the 3D.”.But when you’re in no contact… when you’re trying to manifest your SP back… when you’re shifting a current relationship… or when you’ve never experienced healthy love before - it doesn’t feel simple..In this episode, I break down:.• Why anxious attachment makes it harder to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled..• How hypervigilance and checking the 3D delays your manifestation..• Why your nervous system is wired for loss (and how that affects manifesting an ex back or new love)..• The real meaning of “feeling is the secret”..• How self-concept and safety within yourself changes everything.I share my own journey from severe anxious attachment to manifesting my fiancé, shifting past relationships, and helping clients reconnect with someone from the past, attract secure love, or transform their current dynamic....If you’ve been doing the affirmations, the techniques, the Law of Assumption work - but still feel anxious, triggered, or stuck - this will give you the clarity you’ve been missing..You’re not failing at manifestation.You just need it explained in a way that understands your nervous system..And if this resonates, join my free 7-day series: Seven Manifestation Mistakes Anxious Attachment Makes When Manifesting Love - where I break down the patterns that could be blocking you without you even realising..Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Quiz: ⁠ Take the free Chasing to Chosen Quiz here⁠⁠Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!