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Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction PodcastAuthor: Jeremy Lipkowitz
Unhooked is a podcast dedicated to helping people break free from porn addiction and other compulsive behaviors related to the internet, sex, and intimacy. Rooted in Buddhist wisdom, neuroscience, coaching, and mindfulness, the show explores practical strategies for lasting recovery and personal transformation. Each episode features leading experts, scientists, coaches, and individuals in recovery, sharing their insights, experiences, and expertise to guide listeners on their path to healing and freedom. Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Why Most Men Are Still Boys: The Boy-to-Man Framework | Alessandro Frosali
Monday, 31 August, 2026
🔹 Want to break free? Join Unhooked Academy now:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Jeremy Lipkowitz hosts Alessandro on Unhooked to discuss his mission of helping men become husbands, fathers, and human beings they admire, inspired by what he lacked in role models and his marriage. Alessandro explains Dr. Arne Rubenstein’s boy-to-man framework, contrasting boy traits like self-centered power, emotional reactivity, blame, and wanting a “mother” with mature ideals such as service to the team, emotional humility, integrity and ownership, and equanimity in relating to the feminine. They explore how Western culture lacks rites of passage, and Alessandro outlines four initiation components: shared stories, challenge, honoring, and vision for the future. The conversation also covers why men avoid ownership, how men’s circles help disclose porn struggles, distinguishing ownership from shame, stream-of-consciousness journaling, and why being a better husband often means reconnecting with oneself while nourishing the household.00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro00:32 Mission Beyond Alpha03:21 Conscious Masculinity Basics04:22 Boy to Man Framework10:54 Applying Traits to Marriage14:11 Understanding the Feminine17:19 What Initiation Means19:41 Rites of Passage Four Parts27:12 Why Ownership Is Hard30:34 Handyman Trigger Origins31:54 Owning Your Feelings32:36 Recovery Check Ins35:23 Beyond Performative Apologies36:24 Resistance And Hard Talks39:16 Mens Circle Confession41:37 Ownership Versus Shame42:22 Shoveling The Shit48:53 Morning Pages Practice51:29 Stop Appeasing Your Wife54:51 Mission Nourish Household58:34 Lightness Without Excuses01:01:14 Walking Forward Balance01:04:29 Final Takeaways And OutroConnect with Alessandro on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alessandro_frosali
