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PUSHING BACK CHAOSAuthor: Heroes Media Group
Join Melon, Mike and Raf in their effort to push back against the chaos of life. Join these three close friends, who engage in very real, very raw, and transparent conversations about work, love, family, and everything in between. Their goal is simple. Help everyone listening by learning from their mistakes and victories, because were in this together. All three, veterans of multiple Middle East combat tours, two as pilots, one as a Special Operations soldier. In lock step, they are making their own effort to create a framework for anyone looking to push back against the chaos and optimize their own lives. They dont claim to have all the answers, but they are willing to share what has worked and what has not, during their journeys. Language: en Genres: Education, Self-Improvement, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Ep: 101 - “I’d Buy Me a Drink” — The Path to Earned Self-Respect
Saturday, 7 February, 2026
Part 1— The Mirror Test Can you look at your life honestly — strengths and failures — and still choose yourself? In this episode of Pushing Back Chaos, we start where real stability begins: self-respect. Not ego. Not self-hype. But the ability to assess yourself accurately without tearing yourself apart. Most men don’t lack confidence — they’ve outsourced their worth. To approval. To performance. To status, success, or validation that never fully settles the nervous system. We explore: • Why self-respect is different from ego • How outsourcing your worth creates emotional instability • The difference between liking yourself and excusing yourself • Why earned self-regard — not affirmation — is what actually grounds a man This conversation isn’t about self-attack or self-justification. It’s about truth without abandonment. Because if you can’t sit with yourself in silence, nothing else will ever feel settled. This episode opens the door without threatening identity — inviting reflection instead of defensiveness — and lays the foundation for everything that follows. Join the Conversation: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook or message us directly — we read every one. If this episode made a difference, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you haven’t yet, drop us a review — it helps more people find this space. #PushingBackChaos #PBC #Leadership #ConsciousLiving #HMG #HeroesMediaGrp #Brotherhood #Reflection #MenWalkingTogether #Selfworth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices









