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Birds and Bees Don't FckAuthor: Arielle Zadok
We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up. Language: en Genres: Comedy, Health & Fitness, Sexuality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Arielle Z on Ariel Z: Consent, Comedy & Chaos w/Ariel Zucker
Episode 74
Wednesday, 15 July, 2026
Join us LIVE AT FIVE (PT) on YouTube for the watch party every Wednesday: https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck Ariel Zucker is a producer, director, and writer from Atlanta, Georgia where sex education was taught through abstinence, fear-based messaging, and wildly unhelpful visuals that left her and her peers confused about their bodies and sexuality. In this episode we talk about growing up with abstinence-based sex education, the confusion and shame that comes from fear-driven messaging, how sex education shapes our early experiences, and what it actually means to unlearn all of that as an adult. We get into working in production and storytelling, intimacy coordination and creating safer sets, navigating desire and communication, kink and lifestyle communities, and how humor, curiosity, and real conversations can create better sex education than anything we learned in school. We're going in on the Reddit stories, AZ Style. Catch our bonus Reddit story episode over on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck _________________________________________________ Where to find Ariel Zucker: Instagram: @arielzucker & @imarealcnt Website: www.arielzucker.com & www.Imarealcnt.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/cntproductions Where to find Arielle Zadok: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Bonus stories found on Patreon Story 1: My wife (33F) is denying we're married and wants to be called my girlfriend. I'm confused Story 2: Yesterday my brother told me he was in love with me Story 3: Would I be the asshole if I broke up with my girlfriend for humiliating me Like jewelry with a sexy secret? Me too! Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here: https://lovecrave.com/arielle Episode Cheat Sheet: 00:00 Intro and meeting "the other Arielle" 02:05 Ariel Zucker on working in production and comedy 05:10 Working with Ify Nwadiwe and the LA comedy scene 07:45 Dropout TV, Make Some Noise, and behind-the-scenes production work 11:30 Growing up in Atlanta with abstinence-based sex education 15:10 Fear-based sex ed and early confusion about bodies and sex 19:40 First real sexual experiences and lack of preparation 24:10 Learning about sex outside of school (media, friends, curiosity) 28:20 Why humor and real conversations teach better sex ed 32:50 Intimacy coordination and creating safer sets in film and TV 37:40 Kink, play parties, and alternative relationship spaces 42:30 Communication, boundaries, and navigating desire 47:10 Rewriting sexual narratives and unlearning shame 52:00 The gap between sex education and real-life experience 57:40 What good sex education should actually look like
