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Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or DivorceAuthor: Stephen Waldo
Are you struggling to get your wife back? Marriage on the brink of divorce? The only one trying to save the relationship and keep the family together? Stephen Waldo from Husband Help Haven shares powerful insights based on his experiences with over 2,500 men going through separation. Advising men going through separation since 2011, he has seen marriages saved from a wife wanting separation, wife having a physical affair (or emotional affair), wife going through a midlife crisis, facing divorce, husband struggling with pornography addiction, depression, childhood trauma, and more. Through a mix of solo shows, interviews, reader Q&A, direct advice and a sprinkle of marriage philosophy, he says, "My goal is always to help you be the best husband, father and man you can be, no matter what your marriage is like right now - even if your wife wants out." Subscribe today and start moving forward. Language: en Genres: Education, Relationships, Self-Improvement, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Why You Know The Destination But Fail the Journey
Episode 32
Monday, 16 February, 2026
Most men are decent at setting goals for where they want to go. Almost nobody sets goals for who they want to be on the way there. In this episode, I break down the difference between destination goals and journey goals, share my actual present-tense vision statements across six life areas, and give you a framework for writing your own — even if you're currently in separation. 🔗 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet: https://husbandhelphaven.com/podcast/destination-vs-journey-goals/ 🔗 Join Husband Help Group: husbandhelphaven.com/group Timestamps: 0:00 — Introduction 0:31 — Why separated men especially need this 2:36 — Why most men don't goal-set like they think 3:41 — "I never cheated, I never hit her" — why bare minimum isn't enough 4:51 — The "passively decent husband" trap 6:58 — The absence of intentionality 7:49 — Two types of goals: destination vs. journey 9:33 — Terry's story: what happens with only destination goals 11:30 — Vision ≠ vision boards (the sprinter analogy) 13:33 — How I structure goals by life area 16:36 — My actual vision statements (marriage, family, faith, mind) 20:15 — The four layers of goal setting 21:45 — Husband Help Group + free one-sheet resource 23:37 — Action steps: what to do from here 26:14 — Separation-specific application 28:17 — Should you share this with your wife? 30:09 — Next episode preview
